tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post2676055925252095009..comments2023-04-06T05:42:03.439-04:00Comments on Short and sweet: MarriageSolitairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comBlogger143125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-88430768105628792722008-08-15T10:08:00.000-04:002008-08-15T10:08:00.000-04:00or shld it hv been alok einstien uhor shld it hv been alok einstien uhAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-23718343107190443252008-08-15T10:07:00.000-04:002008-08-15T10:07:00.000-04:00is dis a closed discussion, hope not.did read thru...is dis a closed discussion, hope not.did read thru some of the comments & well..cldnt help typin n my views too. well...i second keshi & alok. i mean hw on earth do u luv som1 more tan u luv urself...de idea is sweet, a sweet illusion! only makes thngs very heroic , i ll die for you , i ll do dat 4 you & blah blah. but y is it dat v wnt 2 do dat sumthn 4 dat spec person. u don do it 4 evry tom dick or harry , u do it coz it makes you hAppy , u luv 2 luv , u lov to care , & by u i mean , u & me & yeah u & u too..<BR/>y is it dat love dies aftr som time ..if it really ws meant 4 de oter person , somthng purely selfless as u wld wnt 2 call , u did it just fade away aftr 10 yrs or 2 yrs , wldnt it stay , coz u knw de oter needs u .or when der r times dat u knw de oter doesnt need you , if luv is truly selfless , dat it wld stop being a bother 2 de reciever. but hw often does luv act dat way. v luv soley coz v NEED TO LOVE , in most cases , v hv no control on dat need of urs & when v find som1 whom v trust not 2 break our hearts , c again v look 4 our own safety , v fall n luv ..mayb u can cover up dis part & make it all fairy tailish , but the point is SELF LOVE IS THE FIRST & LAST LOVE. you may be willing to die 4 ur love , may u wld rather die 4 ur luv tan see his or her death or unhappiness...but y ..coz YOU cant bear the thought of thier pain. so basically its all coz of you or rather me. but i aint sayin ders anythn wrong wit dis . hw can u love if u don hv a self ..selfless luv is a myth !<BR/>btwn hw on earth do u knw who luvs who de most , i guess our kids wld hv 2 memorise yet another invention ...love calculator was invented by ...hugh einstein! lol!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-53090284882030239092008-07-05T16:36:00.000-04:002008-07-05T16:36:00.000-04:00Marry a man who loves you more than you love him."...Marry a man who loves you more than you love him.<BR/><BR/>"so that you can love others more than you love him"Raghu Iyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05799622742866620522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-48583456301137491762008-07-02T05:02:00.000-04:002008-07-02T05:02:00.000-04:00It’s just a thought to say. Without we love, how c...It’s just a thought to say. Without we love, how could that relation can be understood?Jeevanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14063201530500784222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-70344314994148027002008-07-01T00:31:00.000-04:002008-07-01T00:31:00.000-04:00LOL...Sol,I said love to the point of paranoia..do...LOL...Sol,I said love to the point of paranoia..don't you remember that movie?She was willing to kill for her guy..:)AmitLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01315443741450983388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-39354629643073506772008-06-30T04:41:00.000-04:002008-06-30T04:41:00.000-04:00please read carefully i told understanding is more...please read carefully i told understanding is more significant variable as compare to love..DRakeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06907020492315617239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-60491454509298895392008-06-28T23:25:00.000-04:002008-06-28T23:25:00.000-04:00hoping love is there :)hoping love is there :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-21989053036762109182008-06-27T06:23:00.000-04:002008-06-27T06:23:00.000-04:00Yeah go ahead but do attribute it, with maybe link...Yeah go ahead but do attribute it, with maybe link to my blog.<BR/>Pichhle story ka alternative ending many people thought was yours. Not a big deal, but does kinda feel odd inside.<BR/><BR/>And maybe I'll also put it as a post. And link to this post for stating the 'source of inspiration' for the thesis.Stupidosaurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14440677810342540223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-5940030795719731272008-06-27T04:03:00.001-04:002008-06-27T04:03:00.001-04:00@ Aneesh,Tears of happiness.....@ Aneesh,<BR/><BR/>Tears of happiness.....Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-9163206631776859962008-06-27T04:03:00.000-04:002008-06-27T04:03:00.000-04:00@ Vishesh,Is it? Are you ten years old?@ Vishesh,<BR/><BR/>Is it? Are you ten years old?Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-41700742135204876352008-06-27T04:02:00.001-04:002008-06-27T04:02:00.001-04:00@ Ceedy,Soham is actually counting inches.@ Ceedy,<BR/><BR/>Soham is actually counting inches.Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-33232541916828467252008-06-27T04:02:00.000-04:002008-06-27T04:02:00.000-04:00@ Amit,Paranoia kaha se aa gaya?@ Amit,<BR/><BR/>Paranoia kaha se aa gaya?Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-54275743069824935072008-06-27T04:01:00.001-04:002008-06-27T04:01:00.001-04:00@ Stupid,Mind if I make this thesis like comment a...@ Stupid,<BR/><BR/>Mind if I make this thesis like comment a post on Warm Fuzzies?Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-12495045550882131782008-06-27T04:01:00.000-04:002008-06-27T04:01:00.000-04:00@ G-man,Apparently, inches too!@ G-man,<BR/><BR/>Apparently, inches too!Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-9434977286753530442008-06-27T02:29:00.000-04:002008-06-27T02:29:00.000-04:00ummm...love has degrees? i didn't know that!ummm...love has degrees? i didn't know that!g-manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17959405141495006321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-63234724563295120412008-06-26T20:40:00.000-04:002008-06-26T20:40:00.000-04:00lol Ankur wrong place for pulling n praying!Keshi....lol Ankur wrong place for pulling n praying!<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-81515059529077522262008-06-26T15:12:00.000-04:002008-06-26T15:12:00.000-04:00sam saidQuantifing love is stupid!!But this is one...sam said<BR/>Quantifing love is stupid!!<BR/>But this is one case where maths rule "If A is B then B is A" fails<BR/><BR/>Because even though<BR/><BR/>Quantifying love is Stupid,<BR/><BR/>Stupid is not Quantifying love.<BR/>(Sol is, through her question)<BR/><BR/>Stupid answered under the assumption that sol's assumption is true.<BR/><BR/>And if love quantifyable,<BR/><BR/>then before meeting her man, sol had 0 love for him.<BR/>Then the situation became<BR/>0 (less than) sol's love (less than) man's love. <BR/>And sol started wondering whether to marry him or not.<BR/>(I couldn't use the actual sign of (less than) cos stupid blogspot says its a HTML tag, not allowed)<BR/><BR/>So sol, if your love for him increased from zero to some non zero value, it means love can somehow increase. You are the best judge how to increase it.<BR/><BR/>And about the heart breaking part,<BR/><BR/>Think of your heart as a glass sphere, filled with love.<BR/><BR/>(Shisha ho ya dil ho....wala!)<BR/><BR/>Inside it is your love for your man and other people.<BR/>Outside it is other people's love for you.<BR/><BR/>Before meeting your man, the difference between your love for others and their love for you was kinda matched, except for slight differnce that could be tolerted by the strenght of your glass heart. So your heart was fine and things were in stable equilibrium.<BR/><BR/>Then love for him also grew in your heart, and this was balanced by his love for you. So heart still intact.<BR/><BR/>(Mind you, the difference between the love of two persons can only be as much as either of their heart's strenghts permits. If it exceeds, on of the hearts will break. So don't marry if you love the guy too less than he loves you ;) )<BR/><BR/>And as your loves for each other grow neck to neck (etc) they will balance each other out and no additional pressure will be there on the hearts.<BR/><BR/>Actually this is a very widely applicable theory.<BR/><BR/>If one person loves some person too much and its not reciprocated, one day the person's heart breaks and he/she comes running to sol for counselling<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, if one person has become cold and unloving, his heart too will break feeling all 'empty' and vaccum, cos outside of it, people still had normal 'love pressures' for the person.<BR/>Sol gets richer again!<BR/><BR/>And writing such insane thesis, I am soon going to need counselling.<BR/>Sol I'm coming!Stupidosaurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14440677810342540223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-45829178021009634232008-06-26T09:50:00.000-04:002008-06-26T09:50:00.000-04:00Refering to Sohams comment on Calm I think he will...Refering to Sohams comment on Calm I think he will thrive in Equilibrium....and it definatly might not be boring for him and his wife!ceedyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17767787593275846653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-55535204367626852432008-06-26T09:14:00.000-04:002008-06-26T09:14:00.000-04:00ROFL...Sol,I'm curious-who are 'they',in this case...ROFL...<BR/>Sol,I'm curious-who are 'they',in this case? But,seriously,I don't think it matters..coz,as the relationship progesses,it's the level of trust that becomes prevalent,and,love continues to grow/reduce/remain,depending on the trust level!:)<BR/><BR/>Personally,I do wonder-would I appreciate a partner who was obsessed to the point of paranoia,a la,Pooja Bhatt in one of Mahesh Bhatt's movies? Probably not!AmitLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01315443741450983388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-24893176392653041952008-06-26T07:03:00.000-04:002008-06-26T07:03:00.000-04:00no they aren't :) you are all elder to me na by wh...no they aren't :) you are all elder to me na by what at least 4-5 years? Anuties :DVisheshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14452040774198026145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-43477679439291499252008-06-26T06:06:00.000-04:002008-06-26T06:06:00.000-04:00@solAnd what would be the result of that fight?@sol<BR/><BR/>And what would be the result of that fight?Aneeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12671001085513516306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-86248490167182918742008-06-26T04:20:00.000-04:002008-06-26T04:20:00.000-04:00yes!!! :(wait lemme correct!!! :Dyes!!! :(<BR/>wait lemme correct!!! :DAnkurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05970007324812108156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-34268093456504519242008-06-26T04:19:00.000-04:002008-06-26T04:19:00.000-04:00@ Ankur,You wrote your comments in the wrong post!...@ Ankur,<BR/><BR/>You wrote your comments in the wrong post!Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-176775334395328872008-06-26T04:14:00.000-04:002008-06-26T04:14:00.000-04:00@Keshiand who will ask... "Did ya come??":P :Phehe...@Keshi<BR/><BR/>and who will ask... <BR/><BR/>"Did ya come??"<BR/>:P :P<BR/>heheheAnkurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05970007324812108156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7086225470852796884.post-75533715277388245212008-06-26T04:13:00.001-04:002008-06-26T04:13:00.001-04:00@Keshiand i wont pull for it!!! :Dhehehe@Keshi<BR/><BR/>and i wont pull for it!!! :D<BR/>heheheAnkurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05970007324812108156noreply@blogger.com