August 25, 2008

Physical

What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have
AND
one that he/she should not have at all!?

P.S: Please don't say "looks don't matter".

137 comments:

Keshi said...

Interesting qn Sol!


**What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have?


Must be tall. I dunno wut it is, Im naturally attracted to tall guys...even if it's a tall 'baboon'.




**one that he/she should not have at all!?


Man boobs.



Keshi.

Solitaire said...

@ Keshi,

Hahahahah! Man Boobs!! Hhahahaha!!

I know a guy who has "man boobs" and everyone makes fun of him behind his back.

Keshi said...

lol its mean...but I cant help it, I just dun like em.

I hv a pair myself, so wut do I do with another pair! *rolling eyes*

Keshi.

n i t i n said...

yeah..personally, I somehow fall for tall girls with a face shape resembling Jessica alba or Charlize theron.(still dont know how to explain face shapes!!)

and who can Dance well!

and oh, they should have enough, I mean just enough boobs. I don't want to get up one fine day n find an ironing board by my side!!

this is physical side, since you insisted, so...

n well...

she shouldnt have whatever I just missed above!! :D

Solitaire said...

@ Nitin,

Oh!!! You too talking about height and boobs?!! Is that a coincidence or what??????? Did you read Keshi's response?

Solitaire said...

@ Keshi,

How tall are you?

Keshi said...

So basically Keshi must meet Nitin? lol!


Sol Im abt 5'7...how tall r u?


Keshi.

Princess Mia said...

Now u've asked for one ...damn thats a prob....trying to pick one amongst all.....


oke i'd say I would like my partner to have an atheletic body...but not a hairy one haha

what abt ya Sol....whats your pick eh?

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

Legs....
Im crazy abt nice well shaped and smooth legs...

and she shud nt have long nails...

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

uske siva detail.....chaiye toh bolo wat attributes: P not one :P

pooora ka poora describe kar doonga :P

i love doing it :P

SS said...

must have - moushtache?! "mooch nahi toh kooch nahi" ;)

must not have - beard? with so much hair around the lips, kissing will be a problem :D

Vinz aka Vinu said...

Smile, firm structure with a nice ass...!!
If to pick up one, its smile..

{Was difficult to select this one from many.. :)

and the one she should not have...sagging boobs..!!

:)

DreamCatcher said...

Expressive Eyes, Dimple, cute smile, great body and who can enjoy it.. :)

List is very long!

Ghost Particle said...

what the! oh well... hummm... nice beautiful dark hair.

should not have...
a mickey mouse voice.

there u go.

n i t i n said...

since our stupid state govt is taking ages to put us in college, I'm a gym addict now...

Yeah, I'm also just 5'7". But then I'm just 18 too. I still have 3 to 4 years.

By tall I meant, looking tall too.. :D

And Sol, its a coincidence. My first girl was like whatever I told, but then we had problem, and she wanted a DemiGod(or so I came to conclude), who never did any mistakes. SO she couldnt accept my apology, and so on n on n on...
So, jo hona ttha wo hogaya. Now single again! :|

And we never heard you saw ur opinion!! shoot!

and btw, has anyone of you ever seen my blog. I am a blogger too. Sometimes I dont feel like I'm one. SO much ignorance in this world eh?

Stupidosaur said...

One essential physical attribute:
Existence.

I mean what is the point if the partner does not exist physically.

One strict no no: Must not have any structures that may classify her as male from afar, and definitely not any the would result in same classification on closer examination.

Rest I have not though about

SMM said...

Truly interesting question. I always fell for guys with glasses (does that count as a physical attribute.

As for the one attribute he should not have - besides man boobs, a huge big fat tummy.

Ankur said...

long hair is wat i dream of!!! :)

but seriously, believe it or not... but i know.. looks seriously is the secondary factor for me, coz eventually beauty does leave u after some time, but wat u r.. never does!! :)

so i even count the personality as a strong physical attribute which is wat i look for!! :)

I know i m different!! :)

Cess said...

wow, it s not really an attribute but he needs to be 'clean' (like teeth, no dirty hands, feet...), and no hairy carpet chest ;)

Trinaa said...

i want big beeeeeeeeaaauutiful eyes!

Chakoli said...

LOL...
good question....

he shud dance salsa :PPP

and he shudnt be able to dance with anyone else other then me :PPP

D said...

Must-have: Good height

Must-not have: A bald patch.

g-man said...

ummm...physical attribute would be girl parts :| because i'd want my partner to be a girl

shouldn't have at all...hmmm...a moustache :D

Hiren said...

seems i have a lot of competition here as many ppl are opting for good height ....

well for me too good height is essential ... as i m 6'1" ...

factor which she shouldn't have ... hmmm .... squint eyes ... (at least pata toh chalna chahiye ki woh mujhe dekh rahi hai ;))

mayz said...

this is a tough one...not coz there r so many...coz i cant think of any!!!

Pavi!!!! said...

He MUST be able to lift me up n hold me in his arms...

He MUST NOT have this girlish walk..(pls dont sue me for watever..but i really don like that!)

AmitL said...

Hi,Sol-some interesting answers given by people there..haha..from Keshi's No man boobs to chakoli's Salsa dancer.:)
--
Phys. attribute:Must have: let's see now-Twinkling eyes. And:
Must not have: Accusing Fingers!

Pujan said...

Must have: Smiley face/ pleasing personality and sporting body.

Must not have:dull face and excessive tummy/waist.

rayshma said...

should have: a good smile.
shouldn't have: a mooch or a beard. a stubble's perfect, tho... :D

Solitaire said...

@ Keshi,

Haha! First you have to find out how tall Nitin is and ahem...about the other part too..

I am very short. 5 feet 2 inches.

Solitaire said...

@ Princess,

Oh so you want Salman Khan types??

I want Aamir Khan types. Hair ok. Not athletic ok. But must be cute. :)

Solitaire said...

@ Daydreamer,

Shapely and smooth legs!!? Sounds like a model from a razor ad!

Why not long nails? You afraid she might scratch you?

Solitaire said...

@ Daydreamer,

Pura pura nahi chahiye!! :o

Solitaire said...

@ SS,

Moochhe ho toh nathulal jaisi...you know that right?

Solitaire said...

@ Vinz,

She might eventually have sagging boobs and a not so great ass after she has those babies..


So stick with the smile!

Solitaire said...

@ Dreamcatcher,

Pick one from the long list because I don't know if you will find someone with all those qualities unless its Preity Zinta.

What do you not want?

Aneesh said...

must have?
A nice figure

Shouldn't have?
Must not be obese/fat

Solitaire said...

@ ghost,

Oh oh! I have a mickey mouse voice.

Solitaire said...

@ Nitin,

Ok! So your first girl was tall and had boobs! Nice to know!

Sorry to hear what happened between you both but hey...there are lots of fish in the ocean right?

I don't think I have seen your blog. Will do so. :)

Solitaire said...

@ Nitin,

BTW, Aamir Khan is also 5 feet 7 inches. :)

Solitaire said...

@ Stupidosaur,

HAHA! Basically you do not want a corpse or a female with a hairy body or a transexual, right?

Solitaire said...

@ SMM,

Yes, glasses do count.
Basically, you want someone with a not perfect eyesight. ;)

And no paunch!! But there is no guarantee he will not develop one!

Solitaire said...

@ Ankur,

You are really not that different. I think most of us do think that way and that is why I had to put the PS up there in my post.

Ok so you want someone with long hair. Hope you realize the expenses of maintaining it with all the hair products. Make sure you earn well. :)

Solitaire said...

@ Cess,

Hahaha! Hairy carpet chest! EEEKS! I hate those. Especially when they leave their shirt buttons undone for the whole world to see.

Solitaire said...

@ Trinaa,

Like Irfan Khan????????

What do you not want?

Solitaire said...

@ chakoli,

Eh? That's not a physical attribute. That's a talent!

Solitaire said...

@ D,

My tall (ex) boyfriend now has a bald patch!! He looks 40!

Solitaire said...

@ G-man,

Moustache can be shaved off..don't worry!

g-man said...

shaved off? it'd just grow back again :P

Solitaire said...

@ Hiren,

Hahahahha!! Damn! You are mighty tall. Deepika Padukone will be good for you. Bipasha Basu is squint eyed. Otherwise would have suggested her.

Solitaire said...

@ Mayz,

Think hard!

Solitaire said...

@ Pavi,

I am sure ANYONE can carry you and hold you! ;)

Girlish walk..haha! I know what you mean!

Solitaire said...

@ amitL,

Oh! I use accusing fingers all the time! So even though I have twinkling eyes, we are not a good fit. ;)

Solitaire said...

@ Pujan,

Dull face? No problem. Lots of beauty products in the market! Tummy? No problem. Lots of weight reducers in the market.

Solitaire said...

@ Rayshma,

Aha! so you like the rugged look!

Solitaire said...

@ G-man,

so what? You shave on a regular basis too, right? You both can keep each other company!

g-man said...

lols that's besides the point. i shave because i am a guy! i would not want a partner who is female and yet has to shave :|

Ashish said...

She should not have facial hair ..yuukkk...
also 3rd nipple ones are out of question

Stupidosaur said...

Yeah, I gave an odd answer because I found the question bit odd.

Cos I don't go looking out for my life-partener with a checklist.

Even if 'property-check' is affirmative, if you don't click you don't click.
End of story.

Even if 'property-check' is negative, if you click, you click.
Beginning of story.

DreamCatcher said...

bus itna sa khwaab hai... :)
thoda sa to maanga tha.
I don't like skinny girl!
and what abt ur thoughts?

DreamCatcher said...

and if i need to choose only one then i will choose cute smile!

Ankur said...

hehe Sol... the thing is that i earn well enugh to manage that, but the problem is that girls dont keep long hair these days!!

so i m happy with what i will get!! :)

Cheers!!!

Divkiran said...

Why din i think bout this before this!!!! wts wrong with me...DIAMMMM

**What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have?
A cute chocolate boy smile...

**one that he/she should not have at all!?
ummmmmm...rest he shud be clean....i hate men with dirty feet n hand, u know the ones with muck in the nails...eeeewww

Ghost Particle said...

uh! ok...now I like mickey mouse voice. move that to the list of likes.

the new dont like is...hmm...ahha! i got it... girls who are taller than me. mwahahahahah.

Solitaire said...

@ Stupid,

Nice to know you found it odd. There are still many people out there who DO sit with a checklist when they log on to shaadi.com or sit with the Sunday newspaper searching for their ideal matches.

Solitaire said...

@ G-man,

A lot of women shave their legs!

Alok said...

Now I cannot pinpoint it, but I have an inner idea of "cute", that's how I judge physical appearance.

Pujan said...

is it not easy to find out person with cosmetic changes and natural beauty?

If weight reducers guarantee of their products, america would not be having so many obese people.

Prakhar said...

Mutually exclusive attributes

Curly Hairs & Blue eyes


MUST NOT BE

Extra slim (wl make me look fatter)...EAT WOMAN EAT!!

Hemanth Potluri said...

hmmmmm.....

**What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have?

beautiful eyes....looks ...and if another then height she should match me yaar other wise i am doomed if shorter then me


**one that he/she should not have at all!?

anger on me...:)...


urs..hemu..

P.S: hey keshi can match my height ;)....lol..i am 6'2"..fyi..

P.P.S: u havent been visiting me i am angry on u now...x-(..

Ps said...

personal Hygiene and as a corollary--B.O :)
Cheers
preeti

humbl devil said...

"looks dont matter"
>:D
coz for me love is blind... :P

Solitaire said...

@ Hemu,

Aww! Please don't be angry. Hardly been visiting thanks to limited access to internet and first week at work. I try my best whenever I can.

WOW! You are mighty tall! You need someone 5 feet and 9 inches or taller!!!! You might wanna marry a model..what say?

Solitaire said...

@ Humble,

I wish it were deaf too sometimes.

Vandita said...

umm i thought a lot now... MUST HAVE i cudnt think of anything... i like different ppl for different things.
i love one of my frnd's nose for instance...
must NOT have long nails and definitely not colored...i'd be the first to point that out

Solitaire said...

@ Preeti,

I concur. Its very important!

Solitaire said...

@ Preeti,

I concur. Its very important!

Solitaire said...

@ Prakhar,

You either want a non desi, a biracial girl, or a desi who can curl her hair and wear blue contacts!

Solitaire said...

@ Pujan,

Americans eat dietary supplements and go out eat double cheese burger with fries and coke. How do you think they will become thinner?

Solitaire said...

@ Alok,

Preity Zinta cute?

Solitaire said...

@ Ghost,

How tall are you?

Prakhar said...

Hey Sol,

..thats why i said mutually exclusive..only one will do..biracial gurl wud be interestin...but i wl go wid desi..wid natural curls preferably..ok Priety Zinta will do :D

Ghost Particle said...

1.77 m of tall cuddly goodness.

Neeku said...

No No's -

Bald Patch (if you are loosing just shave it off all the way!), short, Girlie walk (I agree with PAVI), anyone who knows me ... would know and laugh... but I have have two big Critical EYES for nose.... whenever I am asked to opinionate someone about their looks... I would always comment on their nose... So I guess No-fat or Mr. Grinch type of noses please !

Must Must,

Smart/cute/Sec C Grin, intense eyes (but not raccoon ones)

Okay I will stop here now... I 've been reading too many M&B lately =(

Kris Bass said...

Easy honey.

Must-have: Penis
Mustn't have: Vagina

Princess Mia said...

@sol

aare sol....pls noways i so dont like salu.....

athelete types as in...christiano ronaldo types haha , broad shoulders, flat stomach, good abs types haha

Nirmal said...

good topic....i need my gal to have good height (not more than mine), good long hairs (with slight brown shades on it),smile and shud sell good..

and shud not have hairs on her legs and hands..

Solitaire said...

@ Neeku,

Are you serious?????

A cousin of mine once rejected a potential bride because of her nose!!!

Don't worry about the MB books..we all need to fantasize. Its better than men fantasizing about their brides after looking at a Hooters calendar.

Solitaire said...

@ Ghost,

cuddly????????????????

Solitaire said...

@ Prakhar,

I offered to many others already. :p

Solitaire said...

@ Vandita,

Have men in India started painting their nails????????????

Solitaire said...

@ Divkiran,

Is aamir khan your favorite?

Solitaire said...

@ ankur,

They don't? I thought long, straight, flat-ironed hair was the in-thing!

Solitaire said...

@ Dreamcatcher,

I don't like skinny girls either!! :p

Solitaire said...

@ Ashish,

What's a third nipple?

Solitaire said...

@ Aneesh,

Uff! One and the same thing!! If she gets pregnant and becomes fat, then what?

Solitaire said...

@ Kris,

OKIE!! What else would you like in your man?

Solitaire said...

@ Princess,

Me only knows bollywood heroes.

Hrithik?

Solitaire said...

@ Nirmal,

Damn!! You want someone from a Lux soap ad or something, don't you?

Keshi said...

Sol 5'2 is not VERY short. My sis is 5'3 I think...she doesn't look bad at all, height-wise.


And I hv seen ur full pics...u look tall and great!


Keshi.

Keshi said...

heyy Vinu...

**Smile, firm structure with a nice ass

so how will u be checking out her Smile when ur so busy checking out her Ass? lol!





SMM so r ya saying u'll fall for guys with Soda-glasses too, like Nirmal's glasses? :)





**no hairy carpet chest

hahaha Cess @Carpet!





Chakoli thats such a difficult request to oblige by! Wut if can dance Salsa but has man boobs? :)




Hiren I think heightwise u match me? ;-)

**squint eyes

I do that for fun. is that ok? :):)





Amit u dun like ur girl ponting fingers at ya? awww...wut if she was trying some kinky act with her fingers?





Aneesh did u meand 6 'Figure' salary? :)




Hemanth wow ur that tall! ;-)




lol lol lol @ Kris' comment!




Keshi.

Ghost Particle said...

cuddle:
transitive verb : to hold close for warmth or comfort or in affection

intransitive verb : to lie close or snug

cuddly... an invitation to cuddle. bahahahaha!

sigh...I'm going to charge for any further linguistic services.

Vinz aka Vinu said...

@sol,

yeah, but post marriage shape is maintainable if u r really focused..

@keshi,

hehe...yeah..its a tough task,,but wt to do,..so many things to enjoy.. ;)

τ ħ€ ĐάЎđяёάmёя said...

nakhun bade bade ho toh manicure ka kharcha kon dega :P

and please mujhe poora describe karne dena tha na :P

waise razor ad ki ladkiyon bhi kamaal hoti hai ..don't u agree ????

SMM said...

Sol...well its not so much about not having perfect eyesight and more about guys who wear glasses :)

As for the paunch bit...hopefully I can nag him enough to make sure the tummy does not become a paunch :P

Trinaa said...

i dont want a stub nose!! i have one already...lol!

Keshi said...

haha Vinu!

Pity we girls dun hv so many things to enjoy abt boys lol!

Keshi.

Kris Bass said...

Wow, that's too big a list. I think I have blogged about it somewhere in a lighter vein. But to just summarize...

Honesty, Intelligence, Humor, Conversational Skills, Knowledge, Confidence, Motivation, Ambition, Committment etc.

There are hell lots of physical attributes.

One no is bad body odour.

brocasarea said...

must-kannada speaking
shdnt be a bajari!

g-man said...

i mean shave their face!!!!!

Vandita said...

arre some rockstar kinds ppl do it and think they're cool... im talkin abt that

Ria said...

Hmm okie one physical attribute tht he shud hav is:

He shud b as good looking as me. The reason being i hate it when ppl say tht hw lucky tht he/she found the other person, jus bcoz he/she is better to look at!

Now for the one tht he shudnt hav:

Shudnt b shorter than me. :) Its all abt relativity u c! :P

Aneesh said...

Well, can anyone name a physical attribute that doesn't change at all, no matter what?

:)

AmitL said...

Well,now,Sol,if that finger has nicely cut nails,and,is pointed delicately, perhaps I might appreciate it!hahaha!:)

Nirmal said...

hahaha i meant SMELL good...

and bout LUX ad i dont have intention of marrying SRK..

hehehehe

Solitaire said...

@ Aneesh,

The nose never changes unless you get a nose job, right?

Solitaire said...

@ Nirmal,

EEEKSS! Lux and SRK makes me wanna puke!

Solitaire said...

@ AmitL,

So size does matter..huh? Haha!

Solitaire said...

@ Ria,

I hate it when people say that as if that is all that mattered!

Solitaire said...

@ Vandita,

EWWWW!!! It might become a trend one day!

Solitaire said...

@ G-man,

Hehee!!!

Solitaire said...

@ Broca,

Kannnada ka kya hai? Sikha denge!

What is bajari?

Solitaire said...

@ Kris,

But those are personality traits!!

Solitaire said...

@ Trinaa,

Haha!! Thinking about your kids eh?

Solitaire said...

@ SMM,

hahaha! Try keeping him away from beer!

Solitaire said...

@ Daydreamer,

Hahaha!! No description please!! Ankur ko lambe baal vaali chahiye and he is ready to buy all the hair products. So why can't you pay for the manicure?

Solitaire said...

@ Vinz,


Its not all about focus. Its something to do with genes too!

Solitaire said...

@ Keshi,

Thanks!

enchanted illusionz said...

well...m real tall 5 10 ,& i hardly even used to luk at a short guy , but as life has it , de only man i fell n luv wit was a few cms shorter...never wld i hv imagined dat b4. ha ha. well..dats past.
as for nw , i wld say i don hv nythn n de list, coz u fall in luv wit a person & den fall n luv wit his body.m not sayin luks don matter ....ofcourse dey help n creatin an attractin , but not love...

I'll try 2 be truthful said...

should have : eyes that reflect thy personality / thoughts
should'nt have : sorry couldnt think of any , other than acheap expression u know that queer look !

Aneesh said...

Ofcourse, the nose can change in an accident, can't it?

Keshi,

Nah, I prefer physical figure than monetary figure :)

Divkiran said...

Hey how did u know...n so is John and Imraan Khan!!!

Keshi said...

Aneesh tnxx!

**Nah, I prefer physical figure than monetary figure

ok, so wut if she came with a monetary figure and a physical figure AND says to u:

FIGURE me out Aneesh!


lol!

Keshi.

Aneesh said...

Keshi,

Well, then it's a lottery, I'll be happy :)

rantravereflect/ jane said...

**What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have?

those piercing eyes...
awwwryte, nethyng that 'pierces' pleasurably :)

**one that he/she should not have at all!?

piercing eyes that pierce into ANOTHER WOMAN.. :)

rantravereflect/ jane said...

YEHHHH
n i love the bulges-in the shirt n 'IN THE PANTS'
:)

Blue Kite Dreamz said...

What she must have : Eyes which talk..laugh...shout..love....a softish navel..a soft line of hair sprouting from its depth encircling it like guards ..and running up north..meeting the hills at and down the valley ...beautiful hands and longish fingers

what she shd nt :a manly voice..or a high pitched voice..no plastic..a six pack,body odour,flat