What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have
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one that he/she should not have at all!?
P.S: Please don't say "looks don't matter".
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Interesting qn Sol!
**What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have?
Must be tall. I dunno wut it is, Im naturally attracted to tall guys...even if it's a tall 'baboon'.
**one that he/she should not have at all!?
Man boobs.
Keshi.
@ Keshi,
Hahahahah! Man Boobs!! Hhahahaha!!
I know a guy who has "man boobs" and everyone makes fun of him behind his back.
lol its mean...but I cant help it, I just dun like em.
I hv a pair myself, so wut do I do with another pair! *rolling eyes*
Keshi.
yeah..personally, I somehow fall for tall girls with a face shape resembling Jessica alba or Charlize theron.(still dont know how to explain face shapes!!)
and who can Dance well!
and oh, they should have enough, I mean just enough boobs. I don't want to get up one fine day n find an ironing board by my side!!
this is physical side, since you insisted, so...
n well...
she shouldnt have whatever I just missed above!! :D
@ Nitin,
Oh!!! You too talking about height and boobs?!! Is that a coincidence or what??????? Did you read Keshi's response?
@ Keshi,
How tall are you?
So basically Keshi must meet Nitin? lol!
Sol Im abt 5'7...how tall r u?
Keshi.
Now u've asked for one ...damn thats a prob....trying to pick one amongst all.....
oke i'd say I would like my partner to have an atheletic body...but not a hairy one haha
what abt ya Sol....whats your pick eh?
Legs....
Im crazy abt nice well shaped and smooth legs...
and she shud nt have long nails...
uske siva detail.....chaiye toh bolo wat attributes: P not one :P
pooora ka poora describe kar doonga :P
i love doing it :P
must have - moushtache?! "mooch nahi toh kooch nahi" ;)
must not have - beard? with so much hair around the lips, kissing will be a problem :D
Expressive Eyes, Dimple, cute smile, great body and who can enjoy it.. :)
List is very long!
what the! oh well... hummm... nice beautiful dark hair.
should not have...
a mickey mouse voice.
there u go.
since our stupid state govt is taking ages to put us in college, I'm a gym addict now...
Yeah, I'm also just 5'7". But then I'm just 18 too. I still have 3 to 4 years.
By tall I meant, looking tall too.. :D
And Sol, its a coincidence. My first girl was like whatever I told, but then we had problem, and she wanted a DemiGod(or so I came to conclude), who never did any mistakes. SO she couldnt accept my apology, and so on n on n on...
So, jo hona ttha wo hogaya. Now single again! :|
And we never heard you saw ur opinion!! shoot!
and btw, has anyone of you ever seen my blog. I am a blogger too. Sometimes I dont feel like I'm one. SO much ignorance in this world eh?
One essential physical attribute:
Existence.
I mean what is the point if the partner does not exist physically.
One strict no no: Must not have any structures that may classify her as male from afar, and definitely not any the would result in same classification on closer examination.
Rest I have not though about
Truly interesting question. I always fell for guys with glasses (does that count as a physical attribute.
As for the one attribute he should not have - besides man boobs, a huge big fat tummy.
long hair is wat i dream of!!! :)
but seriously, believe it or not... but i know.. looks seriously is the secondary factor for me, coz eventually beauty does leave u after some time, but wat u r.. never does!! :)
so i even count the personality as a strong physical attribute which is wat i look for!! :)
I know i m different!! :)
wow, it s not really an attribute but he needs to be 'clean' (like teeth, no dirty hands, feet...), and no hairy carpet chest ;)
i want big beeeeeeeeaaauutiful eyes!
LOL...
good question....
he shud dance salsa :PPP
and he shudnt be able to dance with anyone else other then me :PPP
Must-have: Good height
Must-not have: A bald patch.
ummm...physical attribute would be girl parts :| because i'd want my partner to be a girl
shouldn't have at all...hmmm...a moustache :D
seems i have a lot of competition here as many ppl are opting for good height ....
well for me too good height is essential ... as i m 6'1" ...
factor which she shouldn't have ... hmmm .... squint eyes ... (at least pata toh chalna chahiye ki woh mujhe dekh rahi hai ;))
this is a tough one...not coz there r so many...coz i cant think of any!!!
He MUST be able to lift me up n hold me in his arms...
He MUST NOT have this girlish walk..(pls dont sue me for watever..but i really don like that!)
Hi,Sol-some interesting answers given by people there..haha..from Keshi's No man boobs to chakoli's Salsa dancer.:)
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Phys. attribute:Must have: let's see now-Twinkling eyes. And:
Must not have: Accusing Fingers!
Must have: Smiley face/ pleasing personality and sporting body.
Must not have:dull face and excessive tummy/waist.
should have: a good smile.
shouldn't have: a mooch or a beard. a stubble's perfect, tho... :D
@ Keshi,
Haha! First you have to find out how tall Nitin is and ahem...about the other part too..
I am very short. 5 feet 2 inches.
@ Princess,
Oh so you want Salman Khan types??
I want Aamir Khan types. Hair ok. Not athletic ok. But must be cute. :)
@ Daydreamer,
Shapely and smooth legs!!? Sounds like a model from a razor ad!
Why not long nails? You afraid she might scratch you?
@ Daydreamer,
Pura pura nahi chahiye!! :o
@ SS,
Moochhe ho toh nathulal jaisi...you know that right?
@ Dreamcatcher,
Pick one from the long list because I don't know if you will find someone with all those qualities unless its Preity Zinta.
What do you not want?
must have?
A nice figure
Shouldn't have?
Must not be obese/fat
@ ghost,
Oh oh! I have a mickey mouse voice.
@ Nitin,
Ok! So your first girl was tall and had boobs! Nice to know!
Sorry to hear what happened between you both but hey...there are lots of fish in the ocean right?
I don't think I have seen your blog. Will do so. :)
@ Nitin,
BTW, Aamir Khan is also 5 feet 7 inches. :)
@ SMM,
Yes, glasses do count.
Basically, you want someone with a not perfect eyesight. ;)
And no paunch!! But there is no guarantee he will not develop one!
@ Ankur,
You are really not that different. I think most of us do think that way and that is why I had to put the PS up there in my post.
Ok so you want someone with long hair. Hope you realize the expenses of maintaining it with all the hair products. Make sure you earn well. :)
@ Cess,
Hahaha! Hairy carpet chest! EEEKS! I hate those. Especially when they leave their shirt buttons undone for the whole world to see.
@ Trinaa,
Like Irfan Khan????????
What do you not want?
@ chakoli,
Eh? That's not a physical attribute. That's a talent!
@ D,
My tall (ex) boyfriend now has a bald patch!! He looks 40!
@ G-man,
Moustache can be shaved off..don't worry!
shaved off? it'd just grow back again :P
@ Hiren,
Hahahahha!! Damn! You are mighty tall. Deepika Padukone will be good for you. Bipasha Basu is squint eyed. Otherwise would have suggested her.
@ Mayz,
Think hard!
@ Pavi,
I am sure ANYONE can carry you and hold you! ;)
Girlish walk..haha! I know what you mean!
@ amitL,
Oh! I use accusing fingers all the time! So even though I have twinkling eyes, we are not a good fit. ;)
@ Pujan,
Dull face? No problem. Lots of beauty products in the market! Tummy? No problem. Lots of weight reducers in the market.
@ Rayshma,
Aha! so you like the rugged look!
@ G-man,
so what? You shave on a regular basis too, right? You both can keep each other company!
lols that's besides the point. i shave because i am a guy! i would not want a partner who is female and yet has to shave :|
She should not have facial hair ..yuukkk...
also 3rd nipple ones are out of question
Yeah, I gave an odd answer because I found the question bit odd.
Cos I don't go looking out for my life-partener with a checklist.
Even if 'property-check' is affirmative, if you don't click you don't click.
End of story.
Even if 'property-check' is negative, if you click, you click.
Beginning of story.
bus itna sa khwaab hai... :)
thoda sa to maanga tha.
I don't like skinny girl!
and what abt ur thoughts?
and if i need to choose only one then i will choose cute smile!
hehe Sol... the thing is that i earn well enugh to manage that, but the problem is that girls dont keep long hair these days!!
so i m happy with what i will get!! :)
Cheers!!!
Why din i think bout this before this!!!! wts wrong with me...DIAMMMM
**What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have?
A cute chocolate boy smile...
**one that he/she should not have at all!?
ummmmmm...rest he shud be clean....i hate men with dirty feet n hand, u know the ones with muck in the nails...eeeewww
uh! ok...now I like mickey mouse voice. move that to the list of likes.
the new dont like is...hmm...ahha! i got it... girls who are taller than me. mwahahahahah.
@ Stupid,
Nice to know you found it odd. There are still many people out there who DO sit with a checklist when they log on to shaadi.com or sit with the Sunday newspaper searching for their ideal matches.
@ G-man,
A lot of women shave their legs!
Now I cannot pinpoint it, but I have an inner idea of "cute", that's how I judge physical appearance.
is it not easy to find out person with cosmetic changes and natural beauty?
If weight reducers guarantee of their products, america would not be having so many obese people.
Mutually exclusive attributes
Curly Hairs & Blue eyes
MUST NOT BE
Extra slim (wl make me look fatter)...EAT WOMAN EAT!!
hmmmmm.....
**What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have?
beautiful eyes....looks ...and if another then height she should match me yaar other wise i am doomed if shorter then me
**one that he/she should not have at all!?
anger on me...:)...
urs..hemu..
P.S: hey keshi can match my height ;)....lol..i am 6'2"..fyi..
P.P.S: u havent been visiting me i am angry on u now...x-(..
personal Hygiene and as a corollary--B.O :)
Cheers
preeti
"looks dont matter"
>:D
coz for me love is blind... :P
@ Hemu,
Aww! Please don't be angry. Hardly been visiting thanks to limited access to internet and first week at work. I try my best whenever I can.
WOW! You are mighty tall! You need someone 5 feet and 9 inches or taller!!!! You might wanna marry a model..what say?
@ Humble,
I wish it were deaf too sometimes.
umm i thought a lot now... MUST HAVE i cudnt think of anything... i like different ppl for different things.
i love one of my frnd's nose for instance...
must NOT have long nails and definitely not colored...i'd be the first to point that out
@ Preeti,
I concur. Its very important!
@ Preeti,
I concur. Its very important!
@ Prakhar,
You either want a non desi, a biracial girl, or a desi who can curl her hair and wear blue contacts!
@ Pujan,
Americans eat dietary supplements and go out eat double cheese burger with fries and coke. How do you think they will become thinner?
@ Alok,
Preity Zinta cute?
@ Ghost,
How tall are you?
Hey Sol,
..thats why i said mutually exclusive..only one will do..biracial gurl wud be interestin...but i wl go wid desi..wid natural curls preferably..ok Priety Zinta will do :D
1.77 m of tall cuddly goodness.
No No's -
Bald Patch (if you are loosing just shave it off all the way!), short, Girlie walk (I agree with PAVI), anyone who knows me ... would know and laugh... but I have have two big Critical EYES for nose.... whenever I am asked to opinionate someone about their looks... I would always comment on their nose... So I guess No-fat or Mr. Grinch type of noses please !
Must Must,
Smart/cute/Sec C Grin, intense eyes (but not raccoon ones)
Okay I will stop here now... I 've been reading too many M&B lately =(
@sol
aare sol....pls noways i so dont like salu.....
athelete types as in...christiano ronaldo types haha , broad shoulders, flat stomach, good abs types haha
good topic....i need my gal to have good height (not more than mine), good long hairs (with slight brown shades on it),smile and shud sell good..
and shud not have hairs on her legs and hands..
@ Neeku,
Are you serious?????
A cousin of mine once rejected a potential bride because of her nose!!!
Don't worry about the MB books..we all need to fantasize. Its better than men fantasizing about their brides after looking at a Hooters calendar.
@ Ghost,
cuddly????????????????
@ Prakhar,
I offered to many others already. :p
@ Vandita,
Have men in India started painting their nails????????????
@ Divkiran,
Is aamir khan your favorite?
@ ankur,
They don't? I thought long, straight, flat-ironed hair was the in-thing!
@ Dreamcatcher,
I don't like skinny girls either!! :p
@ Ashish,
What's a third nipple?
@ Aneesh,
Uff! One and the same thing!! If she gets pregnant and becomes fat, then what?
@ Kris,
OKIE!! What else would you like in your man?
@ Princess,
Me only knows bollywood heroes.
Hrithik?
@ Nirmal,
Damn!! You want someone from a Lux soap ad or something, don't you?
Sol 5'2 is not VERY short. My sis is 5'3 I think...she doesn't look bad at all, height-wise.
And I hv seen ur full pics...u look tall and great!
Keshi.
heyy Vinu...
**Smile, firm structure with a nice ass
so how will u be checking out her Smile when ur so busy checking out her Ass? lol!
SMM so r ya saying u'll fall for guys with Soda-glasses too, like Nirmal's glasses? :)
**no hairy carpet chest
hahaha Cess @Carpet!
Chakoli thats such a difficult request to oblige by! Wut if can dance Salsa but has man boobs? :)
Hiren I think heightwise u match me? ;-)
**squint eyes
I do that for fun. is that ok? :):)
Amit u dun like ur girl ponting fingers at ya? awww...wut if she was trying some kinky act with her fingers?
Aneesh did u meand 6 'Figure' salary? :)
Hemanth wow ur that tall! ;-)
lol lol lol @ Kris' comment!
Keshi.
cuddle:
transitive verb : to hold close for warmth or comfort or in affection
intransitive verb : to lie close or snug
cuddly... an invitation to cuddle. bahahahaha!
sigh...I'm going to charge for any further linguistic services.
@sol,
yeah, but post marriage shape is maintainable if u r really focused..
@keshi,
hehe...yeah..its a tough task,,but wt to do,..so many things to enjoy.. ;)
nakhun bade bade ho toh manicure ka kharcha kon dega :P
and please mujhe poora describe karne dena tha na :P
waise razor ad ki ladkiyon bhi kamaal hoti hai ..don't u agree ????
Sol...well its not so much about not having perfect eyesight and more about guys who wear glasses :)
As for the paunch bit...hopefully I can nag him enough to make sure the tummy does not become a paunch :P
i dont want a stub nose!! i have one already...lol!
haha Vinu!
Pity we girls dun hv so many things to enjoy abt boys lol!
Keshi.
Wow, that's too big a list. I think I have blogged about it somewhere in a lighter vein. But to just summarize...
Honesty, Intelligence, Humor, Conversational Skills, Knowledge, Confidence, Motivation, Ambition, Committment etc.
There are hell lots of physical attributes.
One no is bad body odour.
must-kannada speaking
shdnt be a bajari!
i mean shave their face!!!!!
arre some rockstar kinds ppl do it and think they're cool... im talkin abt that
Hmm okie one physical attribute tht he shud hav is:
He shud b as good looking as me. The reason being i hate it when ppl say tht hw lucky tht he/she found the other person, jus bcoz he/she is better to look at!
Now for the one tht he shudnt hav:
Shudnt b shorter than me. :) Its all abt relativity u c! :P
Well, can anyone name a physical attribute that doesn't change at all, no matter what?
:)
Well,now,Sol,if that finger has nicely cut nails,and,is pointed delicately, perhaps I might appreciate it!hahaha!:)
hahaha i meant SMELL good...
and bout LUX ad i dont have intention of marrying SRK..
hehehehe
@ Aneesh,
The nose never changes unless you get a nose job, right?
@ Nirmal,
EEEKSS! Lux and SRK makes me wanna puke!
@ AmitL,
So size does matter..huh? Haha!
@ Ria,
I hate it when people say that as if that is all that mattered!
@ Vandita,
EWWWW!!! It might become a trend one day!
@ G-man,
Hehee!!!
@ Broca,
Kannnada ka kya hai? Sikha denge!
What is bajari?
@ Kris,
But those are personality traits!!
@ Trinaa,
Haha!! Thinking about your kids eh?
@ SMM,
hahaha! Try keeping him away from beer!
@ Daydreamer,
Hahaha!! No description please!! Ankur ko lambe baal vaali chahiye and he is ready to buy all the hair products. So why can't you pay for the manicure?
@ Vinz,
Its not all about focus. Its something to do with genes too!
@ Keshi,
Thanks!
well...m real tall 5 10 ,& i hardly even used to luk at a short guy , but as life has it , de only man i fell n luv wit was a few cms shorter...never wld i hv imagined dat b4. ha ha. well..dats past.
as for nw , i wld say i don hv nythn n de list, coz u fall in luv wit a person & den fall n luv wit his body.m not sayin luks don matter ....ofcourse dey help n creatin an attractin , but not love...
Ofcourse, the nose can change in an accident, can't it?
Keshi,
Nah, I prefer physical figure than monetary figure :)
Hey how did u know...n so is John and Imraan Khan!!!
Aneesh tnxx!
**Nah, I prefer physical figure than monetary figure
ok, so wut if she came with a monetary figure and a physical figure AND says to u:
FIGURE me out Aneesh!
lol!
Keshi.
Keshi,
Well, then it's a lottery, I'll be happy :)
**What is one physical attribute that your partner must absolutely have?
those piercing eyes...
awwwryte, nethyng that 'pierces' pleasurably :)
**one that he/she should not have at all!?
piercing eyes that pierce into ANOTHER WOMAN.. :)
YEHHHH
n i love the bulges-in the shirt n 'IN THE PANTS'
:)
What she must have : Eyes which talk..laugh...shout..love....a softish navel..a soft line of hair sprouting from its depth encircling it like guards ..and running up north..meeting the hills at and down the valley ...beautiful hands and longish fingers
what she shd nt :a manly voice..or a high pitched voice..no plastic..a six pack,body odour,flat
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