Why do men get turned on by lesbian couples and disgusted with gay men when the opposite does not happen with women?
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The answer is simple... Same reason straight men get turned on my women period..its just double the pleasure in this case. In some cases its fulfilling a fantasy..imagining themselves in the midst of these women.
Its impossible for straight men to fantasize about anything, with gay men around them getting their rocks off.
Men are carnal beings..even when they are deeply in love with the woman, they find it hard not to look at making love, as anything else than fulfilling their carnal need at that hour they're on. E.g., harsh word of denial..wont put a man down in the pursuit of his pleasure, while for a woman its just a word that can turn her mood off the whole thing, rather leave her hurt and in tears. Thats, "Why men dont understand and women cant read map ??" !!
I did read the comment - but as art and aesthetics are concerned - women symbolizes beauty, passion, reverence - so two women exemplify that feeling - I know straigt women who are also awed by two women togehter...
men sybolize power, authority and probably seeing two of them together gives you a feeling of submissiveness....so the natural dislike...
@Solitaire I agree with Ceedy on this one. There ARE women out there who are turned on by seeing two women together (or two men, or even a man and a woman). So in the end, I think it depends on how sexual the person is in general. It goes back to the age old argument...most women, since childhood are taught that sexuality is 'bad' etc. etc, and sex is an act for pleasure only for men. That is the main cause of so many inhibitions in women, even now. These inhibitions prevent women from expressing their sexuality, or being comfortable in a sexual situation.
@Keshi Women can be sexual too...they are not JUST emotional. Its just that many women are uncomfortable with sex, because of the way they are raised from childhood.
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The answer is simple...
Same reason straight men get turned on my women period..its just double the pleasure in this case. In some cases its fulfilling a fantasy..imagining themselves in the midst of these women.
Its impossible for straight men to fantasize about anything, with gay men around them getting their rocks off.
MEN are cheap WOMEN are COSTLY.
MEN always try to keep good company.
WOMEN are always costly so don't need to prove a point.
cos men r sexual creatures and women r emotional creatures.
So anything sexual wud turn most men on (be it les or not), whereas for women it takes alot more than that to be turned on.
Keshi.
i can only LOL :D
Men are carnal beings..even when they are deeply in love with the woman, they find it hard not to look at making love, as anything else than fulfilling their carnal need at that hour they're on.
E.g., harsh word of denial..wont put a man down in the pursuit of his pleasure, while for a woman its just a word that can turn her mood off the whole thing, rather leave her hurt and in tears.
Thats, "Why men dont understand and women cant read map ??" !!
This is simple.....
Men are from Mars and women from veenus!
I agree with carolinagal..she is right..... Men get turned on by women and when u get two of them...thats added BONUS!
Last but not least....
Opposite Attracts!
women are from veenus....i cant answer that on behalf of them.....lolz
Interesting I dont blame men - this is more of a question for women - what stops them.
@ Carolinagal, my question is (though I think I know the answer) is that women do not even think this way. Why?
@ Badshah, women are costly? Where did you find costly women? I did not know they were on sale.
@ Keshi, PRECISELY! Good answer (like the way they say in Family Feud)
@ Divya, ridiculous, right?
@ Cinderella, in other words, they are more impulsive than we are!
@ KP, if opposites attract, why are there sooo many gays and lesbians in the world? They are not of opposite gender?
@ Ceedy, I will let the others answer your question, or you can refer to Keshi's comment for an answer.
I did read the comment - but as art and aesthetics are concerned - women symbolizes beauty, passion, reverence - so two women exemplify that feeling - I know straigt women who are also awed by two women togehter...
men sybolize power, authority and probably seeing two of them together gives you a feeling of submissiveness....so the natural dislike...
@Solitaire
I agree with Ceedy on this one. There ARE women out there who are turned on by seeing two women together (or two men, or even a man and a woman). So in the end, I think it depends on how sexual the person is in general.
It goes back to the age old argument...most women, since childhood are taught that sexuality is 'bad' etc. etc, and sex is an act for pleasure only for men. That is the main cause of so many inhibitions in women, even now. These inhibitions prevent women from expressing their sexuality, or being comfortable in a sexual situation.
@Keshi
Women can be sexual too...they are not JUST emotional. Its just that many women are uncomfortable with sex, because of the way they are raised from childhood.
something for u on my blog :)
that was my question...
but now it got answered :)
tc
~ali
blah! ask men :) they should know the answer :)
what is the great point in watching two guys rubbing what the men has
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