[ to dads,friends,bros and boyfriends - yes,yes,i know they do try.a lot.but a little more.sometimes all we want is comforting silence, but they give us mouthfuls of words.we know we are complicated but we'd love you more if you tried a little harder to unravel the mystery called us]
If only men would love for love itself ... If only men would see beyond those eyes... If only men knew a woman more than what they choose to know.. if and if.........the list goes on and on ;-)
12 words..n i get scared..i find it so hard to say a lot in minimal words..Will try my best
If Only men would - dare to shed a tear - understand the importance of communication and conversations! - care to express their emotions and feelings - realize the value of a hug (not the romantic one) - learn to respect EVERY WOMAN they meet - realize that women are actually simple and not as complicated as they think!(ooops this one is 13, sorry!)
jeezz.... seems like i strolled into a lady's club here!!
btw, the comments in men's section is low... wanna know why???
because we love women for what they are and no matter what we say...we don't want them to change... we would rather have them with flaws and all than being perfect (whatever that means!!)
Despite the whimsical nature, extreme emotions, mood swings and god knows what not... we still love women.. and that's how we want them!!! pamper them, spoil them, love them crazy.... and then smile to sleep!!
as joey mcintyre said: "And i hope that you'd stay the same, for there's nothing abt you i'd change!!!"
Your comment over at the other post about the lack of comments from their side sparked me to go into another scientific experiment (jobless that I am).
What was the reason for women outnumbering men in comments initially? Was it laziness on men's part? Or was it because women complain too much?
I think the reason lies with the gender distribution of your usual readers.
Data from recent posts with more than 30 comments (each entry might be wrong by at most 1):
It is quite apparent that readers that frequent your blog are mostly female. So, I think factors like male laziness or female complains cannot be deduced here.
At the time you posted the comment, I think the ratio was close to the average. But your comment seems to have sparked it up.
(P.S. This is no serious assessment, just a bit of mathematical exploration and deduction from a jobless person :D)
@deepali: you've two options - either you trust me or you don't!!
just as a proof of concept just ask your dad, whether he'd have loved your mum had she been different??? he'd have loved to change so many things (may be), but then wud he have loved her the way does after 20+ yrs of marriage??? doesn't he love her for the small nags that might come from her when say forgets to dump the dirtysocks at their rightful place???
find out.... for every example you have against my words.. i can give you two in my favor!!! :)
51 comments:
If only men would realise the depth of relationships than see it as a great past-time.
Keshi.
.. Be more patient before jumping on to the next level of a romantic relationship.
..go back to Mars, or let me go back to Venus!
(am angry...will write something more reasonable later!)
...be a litte like us!
If only men would love us for what we are.
If only men would see the heart that still beats for them after (say) 10yrs of marriage and not the monotony, not the thick flab..not anything else.
there is so much.. but then what is women did smethings they shud have not dne:)
if only men were not all logic and practicality and understood us and our emotions better!
If only men tried to understand us.
[ to dads,friends,bros and boyfriends - yes,yes,i know they do try.a lot.but a little more.sometimes all we want is comforting silence, but they give us mouthfuls of words.we know we are complicated but we'd love you more if you tried a little harder to unravel the mystery called us]
...realize that it's not all that easy being a woman.
...understand that women are different - not better, not worse, just different - and let them be.
If only men would learn to listen, not just hear.
If only men would love for love itself ...
If only men would see beyond those eyes...
If only men knew a woman more than what they choose to know..
if and if.........the list goes on and on ;-)
..find life around them to be as interesting as world news.
a little taller...lolzzz....
ok this is the serious one...
If only men would be a little less hyper and a little more decisive....
wax, they would appreciate women a little more
wax could be substituted with shaping eyebrows.
stop plucking their nose , and think that farting and burping is just OK!
Hey all, its quite interesting that there are 14 comments here and only 7 in the other section.
Is it that women complain too much or is it that men cannot be bothered with commenting?
Would quit thinking that every female fren might be a potential girlfren...
If only men would delve half as deep as we do in a relationship.
If only they looked into our eyes than simply heard the words.
not doubt too much ... that we love them for who they are ... not for their pay check or family background... or good looks...
if only med would NOT BE SOO INSENSITIVE...
**Is it that women complain too much or is it that men cannot be bothered with commenting?
Solitaire it may be cos most women r DEEP enough think abt such things and express too..and most men r SHALLOW enough not to express.
lol!
Keshi.
If only men would have the courage of displaying their emotions!
**deep enough TO
Keshi.
If only men would... stop saying that it is in their nature to not understand!
Interesting...
if only men would realise we are actually not very difficult to understand or for that matter please... :D
If only men would just be themselves and not try to be somebody else.
12 words..n i get scared..i find it so hard to say a lot in minimal words..Will try my best
If Only men would
- dare to shed a tear
- understand the importance of communication and conversations!
- care to express their emotions and feelings
- realize the value of a hug (not the romantic one)
- learn to respect EVERY WOMAN they meet
- realize that women are actually simple and not as complicated as they think!(ooops this one is 13, sorry!)
understand what goes on in a girl s mind, perhaps that would solve all complications and complexities of relationships
if only men could shutup for a moment and LISTEN, not just HEAR.
:)
Keshi.
...not be afraid to realize their emotions.
...just learn to clean up after themselves.
...return appreciation.
be a little sensible......:pPPPPP
If men would just be men and women just be women.
Just a realisation.
Cheers!:)
...actually hear and UNDERSTAND!
....realise that women don't cry without a reason.
Waah waah..multiple comments.
I am sure our list is going to be longer than the men's!!
If only men were emotionally as strong as women.
Sneha u not completing the line,
If only men would ...
If only men would not run from commitment like its plague.
stand up for us not just in physical wars but emotional as well.
Loved greys anatomy as much as women do :)
Not assume that the fairer counterpart is stupid and weak at Math. Dude we do brains ... and at times they work faster than yours!
**If only men would not run from commitment like its plague
haha Solitaire good one!
Keshi.
If only men would open up than keep quiet like they missed their toilet break.
Keshi.
jeezz.... seems like i strolled into a lady's club here!!
btw, the comments in men's section is low... wanna know why???
because we love women for what they are and no matter what we say...we don't want them to change... we would rather have them with flaws and all than being perfect (whatever that means!!)
Despite the whimsical nature, extreme emotions, mood swings and god knows what not... we still love women.. and that's how we want them!!! pamper them, spoil them, love them crazy.... and then smile to sleep!!
as joey mcintyre said: "And i hope that you'd stay the same, for there's nothing abt you i'd change!!!"
my 2 cents worth at the end of it: if only men wud think with their head rather than with their d***
if only men wud stop being protective...life wud b heaven!!
Solitaire,
Your comment over at the other post about the lack of comments from their side sparked me to go into another scientific experiment (jobless that I am).
What was the reason for women outnumbering men in comments initially?
Was it laziness on men's part?
Or was it because women complain too much?
I think the reason lies with the gender distribution of your usual readers.
Data from recent posts with more than 30 comments (each entry might be wrong by at most 1):
W M
16 10 : Ugly Bride?
13 7 : Gay?
16 12 : Woman's Heart
11 8 : looks?
15 9 : Men's day?
16 8 : Hips?
14 12 : Marriage?
Avg.:
W M
14.42 9.43
59.5 % 40.5%
It is quite apparent that readers that frequent your blog are mostly female. So, I think factors like male laziness or female complains cannot be deduced here.
At the time you posted the comment, I think the ratio was close to the average. But your comment seems to have sparked it up.
(P.S. This is no serious assessment, just a bit of mathematical exploration and deduction from a jobless person :D)
@ Sam - Pleaseeeeeee... Sounds all good but I doubt anyone believe any of that.
@ Alok - Good job. I figured that one reason would be there would be that more women comment on the blog in general and therefore the trend continues.
@ Alok, OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!
You actually had the patience and enthusiasm to do that?
AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Are you into research?
@deepali: you've two options - either you trust me or you don't!!
just as a proof of concept just ask your dad, whether he'd have loved your mum had she been different??? he'd have loved to change so many things (may be), but then wud he have loved her the way does after 20+ yrs of marriage??? doesn't he love her for the small nags that might come from her when say forgets to dump the dirtysocks at their rightful place???
find out.... for every example you have against my words.. i can give you two in my favor!!! :)
It's not good to be true.. it is the truth!!! :)
cheerio!!
Hehe,
I'm not too much into research.
But I guess when I find interest in something, I like to blow it apart from its very roots. So there you go!
P.S. The data collection wasn't in the defense of men, just scientific analysis of a situation :P
>>if only men would realise that there is nothing embarrasing abt expressing/ demonstrating feelings.
>>come out of their perceived notions about hw they must behave to b classified as a 'hunk'
apparntly feelings n emotions r not fr thm..
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