I hv NEVER CHEATED in my life so far. I didnt hv the need to cheat when I was in school..cos yeah I was a nerd, not by choice tho :). And when it came to my r'ships, CHEATING never played a part. Tho others hv cheated me big time.
I believe if u cheat once, u may not hv the fear/guilt to cheat again.
But I also believe that some ppl may cheat and learn from the experience, and never cheat again. It all depends on the individual.
rather i would love to give him/her a second chance!!!
and also the fact that the circumstances may differ and the person may change, we all think of killing some anima or human some day but that doesnt makes us a killer!!!
If someone has not cheated before, it does that mean he/she will never cheat. Similarly if a person cheats once, probably it does not mean that he/she will always cheat.
(I seriously don't know what I was thinking when I wrote that. I think I should start my weekend this very moment)
It the cheater did it for survival..well,definitely will cheat again. It it was done for fun it depends on the reaction.. If it was done methodically,with a plan,it may or may not work again If we feel cheated and the cheater never knows it,then it will never repeat. Very nice. liked your blog. me too blog do visit.
I really dont know...i mean really really dont know...it just hurts toooo much when it happens...i dno whether to trust again...same person or another...and so im back to...i dno!
i don't know. and i shouldn't generalize.. but i would never be able to trust someone with a record of cheating. i consider it a habit... like smoking. old habits are hard to give up.
Don't really know the answer but I will definitely have trouble trusting someone with such a past record. To me cheating is a sign of weakness and I wouldn't know how to assess whether the person has overcome such weakness.
Thanks for letting me know that when u kill something it does not make you a killer. Try using this argument in court after you murder someone. It might just work..or maybe not.
I say it all depends on the individual and the relation you have with him/her.If he/she is a close friend or a family member, then I guess I would give him/her a second chance. Because, I believe its human tendency to act very possessive in certain situations and some people try to amend their behavior once they realize and understand the pain that they have caused -'P'
@ Sol: Sorry for the late reply... the reason why I told once a terror always a terror.... because ...
The ordeal one has to go through when someone cheats on your trust and good will... the whole thing is so dreadful ! .. its almost like someone... being emotional terriorist to annoy you and harm you with your feelings...
This has nothing to do with your post... its just someone I had know so well... sort of is being a terror right now in my life... and so said such words...
@ urv, It does get easier to cheat again once you have done it. Practice makes perfect you know. So maybe someone who has cheated once may cheat again.
50-50 outlook is probability that he/she may cheat again is 50% .. so that it won't hurt badly...(coz getting second time cheated with someone whom one trusted will hurt deep ...so sort of damage control)
once a cheater always tought to be a cheater...even if he may not be.... which leads hi m to believe he is...or to make him think..why not everybody doesnt trust me anyways...let me hit back...and u criminal is born
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I would say ... once a Terror always a Terror !
:(
nopes ...
I have cheated a few times during my skool/college examinations :)
that doesnt make me a cheater for life time or does it ???
@ Neeku,
How did that replace the word "cheater"?
@ Aneri,
Care to elaborate?
@ Hiren,
Surely you know we are not talking about examinations, right?
I hv NEVER CHEATED in my life so far. I didnt hv the need to cheat when I was in school..cos yeah I was a nerd, not by choice tho :). And when it came to my r'ships, CHEATING never played a part. Tho others hv cheated me big time.
I believe if u cheat once, u may not hv the fear/guilt to cheat again.
But I also believe that some ppl may cheat and learn from the experience, and never cheat again. It all depends on the individual.
Keshi.
i resorted to the convenience of interpreting inadequate information to self advantage :)
Not Necessary!!!
rather i would love to give him/her a second chance!!!
and also the fact that the circumstances may differ and the person may change, we all think of killing some anima or human some day but that doesnt makes us a killer!!!
I dont think so...
You cant categorize a person based on a few incidents...
There are so many chances for change in attitude, in behaviour ,in lifestyle...
someone else may cheat him/her before he/she does, he/she may realise....
once a cheater, always a mo********ing a$$1-1013 is more like it
True Indeed...Been there experienced that!!
If someone has not cheated before, it does that mean he/she will never cheat. Similarly if a person cheats once, probably it does not mean that he/she will always cheat.
(I seriously don't know what I was thinking when I wrote that. I think I should start my weekend this very moment)
not @ all...change is d essence of life n variety it's spice :D
thrs alwayz room for change!!!
nopes..dont agree...tho i used to make use of that art during exams :D
To large extent it depends upon the situation, but still one more chance should be given..( with 50-50 outlook)
once a 'chettah', aways a 'cheetah'-can't be a spotted tiger can it?
(btw cheetah is the cheater read with an accent;))
It the cheater did it for survival..well,definitely will cheat again.
It it was done for fun it depends on the reaction..
If it was done methodically,with a plan,it may or may not work again
If we feel cheated and the cheater never knows it,then it will never repeat.
Very nice.
liked your blog.
me too blog
do visit.
I really dont know...i mean really really dont know...it just hurts toooo much when it happens...i dno whether to trust again...same person or another...and so im back to...i dno!
naah...
i hardly have ever cheated till now...guess i will have to learn that art...:D
no way! u cheat once for a better something, then you stay with the better something. for a reasonable while...
cheater..cheated....
i dont know wat they mean...can anyone define please????
i don't know. and i shouldn't generalize.. but i would never be able to trust someone with a record of cheating.
i consider it a habit... like smoking. old habits are hard to give up.
Not necessarily.
once alive always alive?
depends a lot on the other person!!!
No i wudnt say tht!some ppl change too....everybody shud get a fair chance.
I disagree. People change. Every person deserves an opportunity to get better in life.
What matters is whether the person repents his/her wrong doing and wants to avoid doing any such wrong in future.
-Shekhar
Depends !!
I dont think its fair to generalize.
This like any other issue has many layers.
The "terror" is not a terminal disease but for the sufferer it can become one....as doubt has been instilled.
@ Hiren,
Good for you!
Well I dont think so!
sometimes, you just gotta do what u gotta do!
what can i do if i see hot girl...cant close my eyes huh?....lol
@rantra...
heheeh..is it in mallu...
It all depends on that particular 'cheaterCock' eh?
Don't really know the answer but I will definitely have trouble trusting someone with such a past record. To me cheating is a sign of weakness and I wouldn't know how to assess whether the person has overcome such weakness.
@ Vishesh,
So you comparing being alive with cheating?
Tcch tcch!
@ Vishesh,
How about...
"once dead, always dead?"
@ Nirmal,
Ya..that's a good idea..
Maybe my next question will be..
"define cheating"
@ Ceedy,
So....once a doubter, always a doubter?
@ Keshi,
To cut a long story short..."it depends".
@ Ankur,
Thanks for letting me know that when u kill something it does not make you a killer. Try using this argument in court after you murder someone. It might just work..or maybe not.
@ G-man,
Itna gussa?
on a serious thought-NO...
and on a funny one...woah! at least they have brains...
@ Karthik,
aha! So are you implying that when a cheater is cheated on, they are set straight?
@ Ashish,
OUCH! Bad experience..
I say it all depends on the individual and the relation you have with him/her.If he/she is a close friend or a family member, then I guess I would give him/her a second chance. Because, I believe its human tendency to act very possessive in certain situations and some people try to amend their behavior once they realize and understand the pain that they have caused
-'P'
Not necessarily. Everybody deserves a second chance.
well if u've cheated once nothing will stop u from cheating again....but then u never know some people learn from their mistakes
did i do something...or didnt do something...? :(
**Thanks for letting me know that when u kill something it does not make you a killer.
Dodo, did i say after killing, i said thinking of killing sm1!!!
read it again... :D
yea...apparently i was cheated upon even before we broke up. and i didn't even bloody know! is liye itna gussa!!!!!!!
I would say... once a cheater .. always thought of as a cheater...
Everyone deserves the benefit of doubt and a second chnace..
what say?
yup...
dunno about cheaters but Once cheated .... always gullible though ..
did you get my earlier comment to your question?
@ Sol: Sorry for the late reply... the reason why I told once a terror always a terror.... because ...
The ordeal one has to go through when someone cheats on your trust and good will... the whole thing is so dreadful ! .. its almost like someone... being emotional terriorist to annoy you and harm you with your feelings...
This has nothing to do with your post... its just someone I had know so well... sort of is being a terror right now in my life... and so said such words...
:(
not always...
You have been tagged!!!
No. People do learn sometimes.
Not really-but,yes,once a liar,always a liar.:)
yes yes.. cant change the past na
A cheat Is a Cheat Is a Cheat Is A cheat..na I dont think so..Past tense exist in these reformed ones
TC
CU
Nope! Time can change people.....
WHERE ARE YOU!
Mostly, yes.
yup Sol, it depends.
Keshi.
hmmm....not sure..abt it :)lol...can change the mind after a certain period...
@ urv,
It does get easier to cheat again once you have done it. Practice makes perfect you know. So maybe someone who has cheated once may cheat again.
@ comfortably numb,
Even someone who wants to cheat may say the same! That they did it for change!
@ ceedy,
Which one are you talking about?
Ghosty!
**WHERE ARE YOU!
how come u dun ever search me like that? :(
u hvnt even been to my blog lately. no worries :) it must be so boring now hehe.
Sol hot new post plz...it's Monday sweetz. :) I just love ur S&S posts!
Keshi.
yeh hello maine abhi padha warna ek baar toh socha ki abduction ho gaya!!! :P
hehe
Nah, never.
Not at all.
People improve.
They always do!!
That Depends How You Define The Word 'Cheater'..
Its all in the other person's mind..
U Think U Think.. U Don't U Don't..
We can't just decide things based on one happening... Otherwise there'll be other examples too..
"Once A Killer.. Always A Killer.."
"Once A Lier.. Always A Lier.."
"Once A Lover.. Always A Lover.."
Is That True ???
:)
TakeCare..
On flipsides..certain people never learn from their mistakes.
So its like..MAYBE a cheater once..will be a cheater forever!
Who knows..depends on the individual.
@aneesh
Once a cheater never a cheater?
@a
Your answer surely is short and sweet!
@ neeku,
Sorry that's happening with you. Just hang in there!
@ aayushi,
Which one do you think happens more?
@ am in trance,
The label alwys remains, does not it? It does not matter whether they cheat again or not. What say?
@ me too,
Twice a cheater, always a cheater?
@ hemanth,
What does your mind say now?
:)
Haan Yaar..
Daag To Reh Hi Jaata Hai..
But... Chaand Mein Bhi Toh Daag Hota Hai Na....
N' Still People Love It....
What Say ??
@ maverick,
Very soon people might come out with classes on the 'art of cheating'
@ SOL:
"Twice a cheater, always a cheater?"
I'd say may be or may be not but he/she cannot be trusted further!
@ am in trance,
I say... Very poetic!
@ rantra,
Good one!
@ nitin,
What's a 50 50 outlook?
@ man in painting,
Wow! You have it all chalked out! Thank you for stopping by.
@ preeti,
Seems like you have experienced being cheated on. True? Horrible feeling!
@ humble,
Ask maverick about the art of cheating during exams!
@ ghost,
Very funny! Hmph!
@ Ankur,
Kaunsa hello?
@ Keshi,
Sorry keshi. Been slightly busy. But a new post is up on my monday, your tuesday...
@ Ghost,
Sorry dear. Am available now. Was very busy over the weekend.
Friendly,
"can change people"...will it definitely change people?
@ Compassion,
What will a past cheat be called in the present? A reformed cheat?
@ Amit,
A cheater lies too!!
@ Shruti,
Yeah we can never change the past.Does that mean that one mistake and we are doomed for life?
@ Bubbly,
"Sometimes" is a key word...
@ Anjuli,
True. Maybe sometimes.
@ Deepti,
Such a sad plight, isnt it?
@ I walk alone,
Tag done a few weeks ago!
@ Iceman,
Bus itna?
@ Rayshma,
Wow. Never saw cheating like a habit though it makes a lotta sense!
@ Rahul,
Which other person? How?
@ Carolinagal,
Thanks CG!
@ Ria,
Would you trust someone to be your husband after they have cheated on someone else?
@ I walk alone,
What if the person repents but compulsively cheats?
@ Lukky,
On what?
@ KP,
Is looking at a hot girl cheating???????????
@ Stupidosaur,
Haha! That statement took me to elementary school.
@ D sinner,
You dont need brains to cheat. You need brains to not get caught!
@ P,
But taali ek haath se nahi bajti na.
@ P,(anonymous)
You would not give a second chance to someone who is not close to you?
@ Ankur,
I have no problem with you thinking about cheating. It is the act that bothers me.
@ G-man,
OH NO!!! That sucks big time!
@ Rahul,
Ya..but what if they screw up after the second chance?
@ Princess,
Ya...we never know!
oyeah I forgot ur Mon is my Tue :) tnxx Sol!
Keshi.
50-50 outlook is probability that he/she may cheat again is 50% .. so that it won't hurt badly...(coz getting second time cheated with someone whom one trusted will hurt deep ...so sort of damage control)
"Hello" between Update and About Me!!! :)
once a cheater always tought to be a cheater...even if he may not be.... which leads hi m to believe he is...or to make him think..why not everybody doesnt trust me anyways...let me hit back...and u criminal is born
k :x
i don't agree. good can become bad and bad can morph to good. time changes everything.
Yeah. But its an elementary school sentence with an 'adult' perspective here.
Yes it is THE key word. And that is why it is there! Well, atleast we can hope.b
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