I can be really BIASED and say something similar (in favor of 'Gori's this time!) but I'd rather keep quiet, than go down to the level of such ppl who make such stupid and uninformed statements.
that sure is some DESI's figment of imagination..actually I am not surprized at all..most of my friends who are or who will be going to US,UK,Europe have this on the top of their list.....don't know for how many it materialises :P
are bahi mera kahne ka matbal hai ki..mans-machi khane ke baad admi ko neend jaida lagta hai to usko bed pe jaina chaiye....saag-sabji khane pe kaam lagta hai to use shaadi ke liye jaina chaiye...jo soya wo khoya.....it just came in my mind:)
not one bit surprised. Its SO typical!bloddy they want german cars,japanese products and american money..and call it life when they have an indian wife..how cheap!
Is that something like 'early to bed,early 'it' rise',er,I mean,early to rise? (Arghh-imagine such thoughts at 230 PM,at work.Time for a break) --- But,seriously,that's one sic attitude!Then again, as I said earlier,to each his own.And,if there are enough goris and desis to fall for such guys,good for them!:)
dekh soli.. yeh sab baath karneke liye kaha gaya hoga...
I've seen many of such fellas... u see empty vessels make more noise.. especially such ones...
Gori to bed.. I wonder.. bed toh duur ki baath hai... they would even would have had the guts to go say a hi 2 any girl...
ROTFL... Only such ppl talk.. and jo sach mein would have been doin it would not find it necessary to say it or make a statement... he'd happily continue doin whats he's best at!
Aise bhohotonko dekh liya... they talk trash and are desperate to gain attention at least by this way! And this time.. i guess one such fella succeeded... :P
A very cheesy thing to say!well mus b those guys who think tht agrez babes r easy to bed, and thts y they wud want to marry a desi who will b dumb to not knw wht they actually r like!!
I heard this at a club yesterday. "Gori to bed. Desi to wed." Comment.
Soul these r my koments... 1) use of ear plugs advisable to avoid loud music and unwanted audibles. 2) do people go to clubs to hear gossips and over hear. 3) i dont believe what you heard. 4) well, seems some "rang bedh" issues to come up. 5) is colour of skin indirectly or directly related to intimate moments? 6) you mean, one will wed to just wed and other will be only found on the bed...oooopppsss..the one on bed will have "bed sore"!! 7) seems the comments are meant for those are whites,....but what does desi mean?...
hey bubbly Soul...i just visited you "warm frenzies"...i was surprised to see this.... quote begin: "2007: WEDDING This picture was taken at a classmate's wedding. Desi got married to a gora. What fun!! I even caught the bouquet at that wedding!!" quote end...
hey Soul, you have said "desi got married to a gora!!!!!!"....and you hear in the club "gori to bed. Desi to wed."....is there any contradictions..or just your curiosity to know about the opinions....
How can I say? 1) I live in India. 2) I've never visited Goa and such tharaki locations to seek goris 3) I go to bed alone. 4) When I had been to goraland for few months, I came to know one 23 yr old from US and one 40 yr old from Aus living at my guest house. But they were married :P. To each other ;). 5) It should probably be made constitutionally illegal to allow anybody to wed me, for their own good. 6) But such a law would take a long time to pass, and probably never considering that hardly any MPs or the President know me. So just in case if I wed an Indian here, it wouldn't exactly be called marrying a 'Desi'. For that term to apply, either me or she must be a 'Desi' out of the Des.
**Maybe they want to take a gori to bed to train themselves for the desi to wed.
hahahahaha ur absoultely right!
This reminds me of a TRUE story that happened in Sri Lanka. My cuz told me this story. 2 Sinhalese ppl (in a village) got married and they had no idea how to make love! This is true btw as both of em were virgins. And the man didnt know WTH to do to the woman on their first night. So the next day they both went to a doc to ask HOW to do it. Apparently the doc had to tell em what to do, where to put it and all!
So I guess mebbe 'Gori to bed and Gori to Wed' wud be a smarter idea for ppl who make this stupid statement lol!
I don't think the goris know that they will be dumped at some point. I know so many goris who have been heartbroken by desis with this attitude. And I don't think the desi women know about their to-be husband's sick attitude either!
Trust me when I say that I've known many desis (2 of whom were girls) in college who thought that the greatest perk of studying (esp undergrad) in America was hooking up with other nationalities, because they will eventually get married to a desi anyway to keep their parents happy or to increase their chances of a successful marriage. Even "The Namesake" addresses this topic. Here in the Bay area, it is pretty common for people to ask desis if they are allowed marry their non-desi partners, given the stereotype built around desis and marrying within the community.
Even within India, you see people who want to have casual relationships with hot (and loose) girls, but wanna get married to a domesticated wholesome girl. (See Bachna ae Haseeno) Same with girls who are all about dating cool "bad boys" in college, but eventually go on to marry nerdy doctors (happened to my roommate - and he wasn't the nerdy doctor!) I guess at some level wanting to date gori/a's and marry desis is just an extension of the whole "I wanna slutty gf but a wholesome wife/ adventurous bf but a stable husband" concept.
Hahaha!! That's funny but not as funny as my very own friend being confused and calling his best friend the next day asking how things are supposed to be done!!! He was not even from a village and very well educated!! I guess he passed his biology exams by cheating.
**but not as funny as my very own friend being confused and calling his best friend the next day asking how things are supposed to be done!!! He was not even from a village and very well educated
Really? So desi girls won't do this? Ask an H4 wife what she does at home all day. Not all, but most, will be cooking, cleaning, and waiting for their hubbies to get home. This may not be out of choice.
I hv many married Desi/SL friends and cousins...modern and young and educated etc.
Some of these girls quit their jobs after marriage..and now all they do is cook, clean, take care of their babies, wait for their hubbies to come home and get back to the same cycle the next day...
sorry, but thats the harsh truth abt being DESI. Not ALL r like that but MOST r.
its just one saying that formed like some of the stupid traditions we have...
if any desi was ready to get boned, and if any gori was readily accepted to be wed, this would have happened!!! :|
PS: 1. I didnt say all traditions are stupid. some still had brains in their making. 2. WTF!?? 3. Why is everyone so paranoid n shit?? 4. That's so 1970's like. :|
umm.... didnt want to comment.. but i guess i should.. being on the other part of it, i cant deny that it can be seen even in the way most of indians guy talk/chat once they know i am from russia. 80% of people i came across are jerks because they start treating a foreigner, in this case a white woman, like a slut even before they know anything about her. Unfortunately thats the thing that forms a perception about your country and the nation in whole. No offence, we are all intelligent and educated people and i believe you understand what i mean :)
i feel managing a house, taking care of children etc etc which a housewife does is not a childs play...it takes lot of effort too... its equal to a corporate job too..
if "gori can be gora, why desi cannot be desa!!" HA HA HA HA...
well, thanks ma :) for calling me a "desi"...
"gori" means white female human... "desi" means local...
but the context here in your blog is different...here "gori" means not from india...and desi means "one from india!"...
further the word "gori for bed" simply means "to have sex but not wed"...
i have no problem anyone marrying anyone...be it men to men, women to women, or two opposite sexes...
but hey, as a person from india you too are a "desi" in USA...am i correct? ha ha ha ...
so the one who commented "gori to bed" was a idiot who was interested in just fu*kk*ng only and had no respects for females!"...such idiots are snobs and sadists....who have one to adorn their home and one to be at the society parties and one on their laps in offices...bull sh*T
its admirable to c alot of the comments here dismissing the somewhat, I supposed, negative notions of the term, but then again, much is left to wonder if these words are jst for show bcoz everyones reading.
typical modern by clothes and backward by mind ppl!!
i somehow see ppl cant think of a very beautiful lady to be their wife, thats wat they say most of the times, coz they are afraid that what they do, which is to stare, if others follow, wat then!!
Goa is great buddy. Must be I mean. I have never been there, as I said.
But I was thinking of which place to find 'gori for bed' (for reply purpose only) when I am in India not goriland. Somehow Goa has also earned some notoreity for this and it popped. So I wrote. I don't mean it is the only place this happens or that it is a place where only this happens. Rock on beatiful Goa! Khush?
//Goa is so not a THARKI Place only for gori darshan....
or did you mean its Tharki place for other things too, like Feni and stuff ;)
Hi,Sol.. **I don't think the goris know that they will be dumped at some point.** Is that an exception or the norm?I mean,I don't really know about too many sucy cases-however,one thing is for sure- where the guy's swimming in money,the goris do get attracted to the power rather than they guy(I notice this here,more betn locals and goris,rather than Indians and goris.heh heh)..but,wouldn't they be knowing what they're letting themselves in for??
Re. the desis not knowing about their would-be hubbies sic attitude-well,that's true-even today,restrictions in the family,and,the eagerness of parents to see their daughter married off to someone abroad,is one of the causes!Isn't it??
Stupidsour "Well Raghu, its because Gori and Gora can take a walk at Gorai (a beach in Mumbai) but Desi and Desa can't take a walk on Desai (Sneha maregi)"
HA HA HA ...Stupidsour why shud Gori-Gora take a walk at Gorai beach in mumbai??? surprising that Desi & Desa cant take walk on Desai...point to ponder though....i know Gujarathi people are very nice sweet people and they dont beat anyone...Gujarat a nice place...but then my comment was not so personal for desi-desa-desai...ha ha ha ....
That's what people usually like to think...that girls are gold diggers and men are after sex. Guess people have not watched enough hindi movies where true love survives poverty and virginity.
OMG!! Thank you for being soooooooooo honest here even though you are in the minority here. As you can see, many readers have looked down upon this attitude, at least in writing. But I totally understand what you mean. I have seen this happening a lot! Its just not this one instance. I am so sorry you go through this. :(
I know a lot of goris who would happily wed the indian guy who gives them false promises only to dump them as soon as the mother brings along a "great alliance".
And the desi girls these days are not as "kacchi kali" as we think they are.
arre mujhe pata hai re, thanks for enlightenment still! lolzz
but what i mean is, typical mentality ke liye gori sirf sone ke liye hoti hai, coz as per them woh committment nahi de sakti hai, khud nahi dekhte hai ki khud kya kar rahe hai... sleeping arnd with everyone who offers!!!
and 2nd criteria is, sunder ladki ho, toh 50 log dekhte hai... i know when they say, yeh shaadi ke liye nahi hai, par agar sone ke liye mil jaaye toh wah wah!!
this is wat i mean and maine socha ki tu samamjh jayegi and i need not to elloberate! :D
considering thhe indian population, I don't think you can say that Solitaire...
I mean you know a small lot..I agree... but not a lot lot desis...
come to Thiruvananthapuram, and show me atleast 5 such girls...ones who are just 18...I mean..come on...you don't even see any a girl like that at an icecream parlour...gulping up strawberry or a pistacchio or a choco, even with her friends!...forget the date, or the bed even...for that matter...
desi girls are still the same here...even though at times they try to make others believe they aint...but then deep down, they still are...
I agree I know a small lot of desis in India, and none in the place you mentioned. But this conversation occurred in the United States, and I know a LOT many desis here. And when I say a LOT, I mean A LOT! I can safely say that they are not the type you portray desi girls to be.
167 comments:
"Gori to bed. Desi to wed."...."Manshari to bed. Saka hari to wed"..but what u thought????
WTF??
Although, I am not surprised at all. So typical!!
WHAT The FLOWER !
Thats all i have to say
Actually, it isn't just dudes that think like that.
For me, it has always been the other way around.
'DESI to bed and GORA to wed.'
Thankfully, I've matured and it's GORA to wed as well!
n they ask what hasn't changed???
MCP!!!
Bastards.
I agree with CG!
Im not surprised at all.
*rolling eyes*
I can be really BIASED and say something similar (in favor of 'Gori's this time!) but I'd rather keep quiet, than go down to the level of such ppl who make such stupid and uninformed statements.
My humorous comment on this:
This prolly means Desis must be horrible in bed!
Keshi.
@ Rakesh,
WHAT??????????
What has dietary habits got to do with that?
If you are calling me a bastard, maybe you should understand the psyche.
For us folks, its easier to satiate our sex drive with Desis as they are available. And all this is consensual. No cheating and stuff.
To get married, you have to go to Gora land anyway. So it's better to marry a Gora and get married in California, Spain etc.
I rest my case.
that sure is some DESI's figment of imagination..actually I am not surprized at all..most of my friends who are or who will be going to US,UK,Europe have this on the top of their list.....don't know for how many it materialises :P
are bahi mera kahne ka matbal hai ki..mans-machi khane ke baad admi ko neend jaida lagta hai to usko bed pe jaina chaiye....saag-sabji khane pe kaam lagta hai to use shaadi ke liye jaina chaiye...jo soya wo khoya.....it just came in my mind:)
Enlightened!
not one bit surprised. Its SO typical!bloddy they want german cars,japanese products and american money..and call it life when they have an indian wife..how cheap!
Morons...
WED to DESI...
GORY in BED!!!
omg :O .....i dont know...
urs..hemu..
Is that something like 'early to bed,early 'it' rise',er,I mean,early to rise?
(Arghh-imagine such thoughts at 230 PM,at work.Time for a break)
---
But,seriously,that's one sic attitude!Then again, as I said earlier,to each his own.And,if there are enough goris and desis to fall for such guys,good for them!:)
ihihihihahahahahaha...
dekh soli.. yeh sab baath karneke liye kaha gaya hoga...
I've seen many of such fellas...
u see empty vessels make more noise.. especially such ones...
Gori to bed.. I wonder.. bed toh duur ki baath hai... they would even would have had the guts to go say a hi 2 any girl...
ROTFL... Only such ppl talk.. and jo sach mein would have been doin it would not find it necessary to say it or make a statement... he'd happily continue doin whats he's best at!
Aise bhohotonko dekh liya... they talk trash and are desperate to gain attention at least by this way! And this time.. i guess one such fella succeeded... :P
LOL...
who is this guy... post a pic as well of him :PPPP
Chakoli
You must have been mistaken ...
wat you heard might be a gujju guy saying to his friend ...
Gori toh BAD
ane
Desi toh WED
:-)
Mmm?
Now, I'm to bed, you to wed!
bah! temme something new!
so typical, no? :|
brother must be FOB!!!
A very cheesy thing to say!well mus b those guys who think tht agrez babes r easy to bed, and thts y they wud want to marry a desi who will b dumb to not knw wht they actually r like!!
It should read
Gory to Bed - This MOFO Desis too sad
well this is called as GLOBALISATION.....
haha
true
let d guys ans it...
I heard this at a club yesterday.
"Gori to bed. Desi to wed."
Comment.
Soul these r my koments...
1) use of ear plugs advisable to avoid loud music and unwanted audibles.
2) do people go to clubs to hear gossips and over hear.
3) i dont believe what you heard.
4) well, seems some "rang bedh" issues to come up.
5) is colour of skin indirectly or directly related to intimate moments?
6) you mean, one will wed to just wed and other will be only found on the bed...oooopppsss..the one on bed will have "bed sore"!!
7) seems the comments are meant for those are whites,....but what does desi mean?...
ha ha ha ha ha .....
hey bubbly Soul...i just visited you "warm frenzies"...i was surprised to see this....
quote begin:
"2007: WEDDING
This picture was taken at a classmate's wedding. Desi got married to a gora. What fun!! I even caught the bouquet at that wedding!!" quote end...
hey Soul, you have said "desi got married to a gora!!!!!!"....and you hear in the club "gori to bed. Desi to wed."....is there any contradictions..or just your curiosity to know about the opinions....
now this is my real comment...
those who say "gori to bed" simply think that a white skinned or modern girl is fit for sex...who does not know being homely...
and the "Desi to wed" means, the ones who are very domestic like servants and taking care of home and all the kids after pumping out from womb...
Yeah...!!
That means Leave The Gori To Go n' Sleep In Her Own Bed Peacefully....!
Leave The Desi To Wed coz' She has got A BoyFriend Already....!!
Find Your Own Gori or Desi or Saawnli Or Kaali with whom You Can Spend Your Whole Life Smilin'...!!!
Simple Funda Re....
Tension Kaiku Lene Ka ??
:)
TakeCare..
coz their "mummy" won't approve of gori to wed, no?
disgusting. the whole attitude is. and the people who think this way.
or mebbe the gori won't wed after seeing what they're like, in bed?
How can I say?
1) I live in India.
2) I've never visited Goa and such tharaki locations to seek goris
3) I go to bed alone.
4) When I had been to goraland for few months, I came to know one 23 yr old from US and one 40 yr old from Aus living at my guest house. But they were married :P. To each other ;).
5) It should probably be made constitutionally illegal to allow anybody to wed me, for their own good.
6) But such a law would take a long time to pass, and probably never considering that hardly any MPs or the President know me. So just in case if I wed an Indian here, it wouldn't exactly be called marrying a 'Desi'. For that term to apply, either me or she must be a 'Desi' out of the Des.
Are you saying that you are surprised? Really?? :O
@ CG,
I know!! I get to hear more of these everyday.
@ Neeku,
:)
@ Idling,
Really? How do YOU know?
@ Comfortably,
Matlab?
@ D,
Seriously!
@ bubbly,
OOPS! Kris thought its for him.
@ Keshi,
HA HA HA HA!
Maybe they want to take a gori to bed to train themselves for the desi to wed.
@ Rahul,
But why?????? What's so great about taking a gori to bed to have it on the priority list?
@ Rakesh,
Baap re! You think a lot.
@ Tuhin,
Go get the gori!
**Maybe they want to take a gori to bed to train themselves for the desi to wed.
hahahahaha ur absoultely right!
This reminds me of a TRUE story that happened in Sri Lanka. My cuz told me this story. 2 Sinhalese ppl (in a village) got married and they had no idea how to make love! This is true btw as both of em were virgins. And the man didnt know WTH to do to the woman on their first night. So the next day they both went to a doc to ask HOW to do it. Apparently the doc had to tell em what to do, where to put it and all!
So I guess mebbe 'Gori to bed and Gori to Wed' wud be a smarter idea for ppl who make this stupid statement lol!
Keshi.
@ Swati,
Yaaaaaaaa...and if the desi women has had sex with a gora, or anybody else for that matter, she is an outcast!!
@ Daydreamer,
Kyon bhai?
@ Arjun,
Realllly? Desis are GORY IN BED?
@ Hemu,
You don't know?
@ AmitL,
I don't think the goris know that they will be dumped at some point. I know so many goris who have been heartbroken by desis with this attitude. And I don't think the desi women know about their to-be husband's sick attitude either!
@ Iceman,
Yeah I guess!! This one fella has a whole post dedicated to him and one girl even called him a bastard!
@ Chakoli
Haha! Photo dekhogi toh aur bhi disgust ho jaogi!
@ Hiren,
Hahaha! If he were gujju, I would have believed you. Sadly, he was Rajasthani. Same thing?
**or mebbe the gori won't wed after seeing what they're like, in bed?
HAHAHAHAHA Rayshma good one!
Keshi.
@ Aneesh,
I am to bed too! Its bed time here.
@ Usha,
Reallly!
@ KP,
I cannot imagine an ABCD talking like this....
Yes, an undergraduate FOB.
@ Ria,
Yesssssssssss!! In fact, these people are dumb to think this way! Hai na?
@ Ceedy,
Seriouslyyyyyy!!! What mentality!
@ Nirmal,
Its not funny!
@ Joie,
They did! One above you calls it "globalisation"
@ Raghu,
I heard this at a club yesterday.
"Gori to bed. Desi to wed."
Comment.
Soul these r my koments...
1) use of ear plugs advisable to avoid loud music and unwanted audibles.
I do not carry earplugs to clubs.
2) do people go to clubs to hear gossips and over hear.
Maybe they do. Maybe they don't. This was part of a conversation.
3) i dont believe what you heard.
Not my problem. You are in denial.
4) well, seems some "rang bedh" issues to come up.
Yes. Kinda.
5) is colour of skin indirectly or directly related to intimate moments?
There is lot more to a gori and desi than just a difference in skin color.
6) you mean, one will wed to just wed and other will be only found on the bed...oooopppsss..the one on bed will have "bed sore"!!
Then goris will have lots of bed sores, APPARENTLY.
7) seems the comments are meant for those are whites,....but what does desi mean?...
You are a desi.
@ Raghu,
What is your confusion about my desi friend marrying a gora?
Maybe that may give you an indication that girls dont think the way guys do??
Trust me when I say that I've known many desis (2 of whom were girls) in college who thought that the greatest perk of studying (esp undergrad) in America was hooking up with other nationalities, because they will eventually get married to a desi anyway to keep their parents happy or to increase their chances of a successful marriage. Even "The Namesake" addresses this topic. Here in the Bay area, it is pretty common for people to ask desis if they are allowed marry their non-desi partners, given the stereotype built around desis and marrying within the community.
Even within India, you see people who want to have casual relationships with hot (and loose) girls, but wanna get married to a domesticated wholesome girl. (See Bachna ae Haseeno) Same with girls who are all about dating cool "bad boys" in college, but eventually go on to marry nerdy doctors (happened to my roommate - and he wasn't the nerdy doctor!) I guess at some level wanting to date gori/a's and marry desis is just an extension of the whole "I wanna slutty gf but a wholesome wife/ adventurous bf but a stable husband" concept.
@ Raghu,
Okie..and what do you think?
@ Am in trance,
arey yeh tera funda accha hai!
@ Rayshma,
Hahahha!! I like the second one!
very bad ...i guess tat guy must be hanged till death......
y dint he wake the gori for his WEDding..she was in the BED sleeping..
hehehe...
@ Stupid,
OMG!! I have to come back at a later time to comment on all your valid points in detail!
@ Paradox,
More disgusted.
@ Keshi,
Hahaha!! That's funny but not as funny as my very own friend being confused and calling his best friend the next day asking how things are supposed to be done!!! He was not even from a village and very well educated!! I guess he passed his biology exams by cheating.
OMG Sol is that for real?
**but not as funny as my very own friend being confused and calling his best friend the next day asking how things are supposed to be done!!! He was not even from a village and very well educated
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Help I cant stop laffing!
Keshi.
**and thts y they wud want to marry a desi who will b dumb to not knw wht they actually r like!!
LOL Ria good one!
yeah cos Desis wud cook, clean, wash, stroke these men's egos right? LOL!
Keshi.
@keshi..
+++yeah cos Desis wud cook, clean, wash, stroke these men's egos right? LOL!+++
dont underestimate desi gals...
times changed a lot...
Wat creeps! Mabbe he ll remain single for the rest of his life 'coz the very sight of him...must disgust a gori and desi and everyone else!
@ Nirmal,
Really? So desi girls won't do this? Ask an H4 wife what she does at home all day. Not all, but most, will be cooking, cleaning, and waiting for their hubbies to get home. This may not be out of choice.
**dont underestimate desi gals...
times changed a lot...
haha I didnt mean that abt ALL Desi girls Nirmal.
I simply implied it for the statement 'Gori to bed. Desi to wed'.
:)
Keshi.
And Nirmal I HAVE to agree with Sol.
I hv many married Desi/SL friends and cousins...modern and young and educated etc.
Some of these girls quit their jobs after marriage..and now all they do is cook, clean, take care of their babies, wait for their hubbies to come home and get back to the same cycle the next day...
sorry, but thats the harsh truth abt being DESI. Not ALL r like that but MOST r.
Keshi.
pata nahi par mujhe iss tarah k statement sunke bqahut ghussa ata hai...nymphomaniac type ka lagta hai
oh well I dont understand it...hemmm...maybe Its good I dont understand it? hmm...
W-t-f
Rofl.:D
The club should be banned :P
And just wait,I'll ban you as well :P
:)
cheesy lines are meant to be cheesy..
i dnt think they literally mean them..those who speak, i dnt think they gt the balls to do wt they said..
:)
eeeewwwwwwwwww
I guess the brag factor in front of their desi friends!!!!
@ stupiudasour ...Goa is so not a THARKI Place only for gori darshan....
I feel this has come thru the desire of Goris. They like indian(or black) in bed..! Recently i came across while my trip in us.
but it depends on individuals character, i feel.
why do gals only want to fate bad boys... and never have a long relationship...??? most of them
such ppl totally disgust me, they dont have respect for their own race, the other race n infact let down their own nation toooooo
GRRRRRRR!!!
Lol NO I didn't call you a bastard Kris.
Well, it was a strong reaction now that I think of it. But what is with the discrimination. It should be Gori or Desi both ways. Me thinks.
Crap Mentality is in abundance.
come on...
its just one saying that formed like some of the stupid traditions we have...
if any desi was ready to get boned, and if any gori was readily accepted to be wed, this would have happened!!! :|
PS:
1. I didnt say all traditions are stupid. some still had brains in their making.
2. WTF!??
3. Why is everyone so paranoid n shit??
4. That's so 1970's like. :|
Ciao.
umm.... didnt want to comment.. but i guess i should.. being on the other part of it, i cant deny that it can be seen even in the way most of indians guy talk/chat once they know i am from russia. 80% of people i came across are jerks because they start treating a foreigner, in this case a white woman, like a slut even before they know anything about her.
Unfortunately thats the thing that forms a perception about your country and the nation in whole.
No offence, we are all intelligent and educated people and i believe you understand what i mean :)
indians always prefer indians only
i feel managing a house, taking care of children etc etc which a housewife does is not a childs play...it takes lot of effort too...
its equal to a corporate job too..
Very nice.
Ahh, their choice.
if "gori can be gora, why desi cannot be desa!!" HA HA HA HA...
well, thanks ma :) for calling me a "desi"...
"gori" means white female human...
"desi" means local...
but the context here in your blog is different...here "gori" means not from india...and desi means "one from india!"...
further the word "gori for bed" simply means "to have sex but not wed"...
i have no problem anyone marrying anyone...be it men to men, women to women, or two opposite sexes...
but hey, as a person from india you too are a "desi" in USA...am i correct? ha ha ha ...
so the one who commented "gori to bed" was a idiot who was interested in just fu*kk*ng only and had no respects for females!"...such idiots are snobs and sadists....who have one to adorn their home and one to be at the society parties and one on their laps in offices...bull sh*T
ragu iyer said
//if "gori can be gora, why desi cannot be desa!!" HA HA HA HA...
Well Raghu, its because Gori and Gora can take a walk at Gorai (a beach in Mumbai) but Desi and Desa can't take a walk on Desai (Sneha maregi)
Sol,
//OMG!! I have to come back at a later time to comment on all your valid points in detail!
When? Today before you go 'Tue' Bed or on Wed?
Gaon ki gori to bed? Par Desi (Pardesi) to Wed.
Thats kinda opposite.
its admirable to c alot of the comments here dismissing the somewhat, I supposed, negative notions of the term, but then again, much is left to wonder if these words are jst for show bcoz everyones reading.
typical modern by clothes and backward by mind ppl!!
i somehow see ppl cant think of a very beautiful lady to be their wife, thats wat they say most of the times, coz they are afraid that what they do, which is to stare, if others follow, wat then!!
@ the paratrooper.
Goa is great buddy. Must be I mean. I have never been there, as I said.
But I was thinking of which place to find 'gori for bed' (for reply purpose only) when I am in India not goriland. Somehow Goa has also earned some notoreity for this and it popped. So I wrote. I don't mean it is the only place this happens or that it is a place where only this happens. Rock on beatiful Goa! Khush?
//Goa is so not a THARKI Place only for gori darshan....
or did you mean its Tharki place for other things too, like Feni and stuff ;)
What did the gorilla say when 'it; got too much for him to control?
"Gori La!"
"Gori La!"
"Gori La!"
"Ooga Booga"
Few years later gorilla learnt to frame Hinglish senetnces and said what sol heard.
i dont know wat to say :(...
not matured enough to discuss ;)
urs..hemu..
huh! wait da minute
.... gori gori chupke chupke hum gori se?!!!
or did I jst kill a song?
Hi,Sol..
**I don't think the goris know that they will be dumped at some point.**
Is that an exception or the norm?I mean,I don't really know about too many sucy cases-however,one thing is for sure- where the guy's swimming in money,the goris do get attracted to the power rather than they guy(I notice this here,more betn locals and goris,rather than Indians and goris.heh heh)..but,wouldn't they be knowing what they're letting themselves in for??
Re. the desis not knowing about their would-be hubbies sic attitude-well,that's true-even today,restrictions in the family,and,the eagerness of parents to see their daughter married off to someone abroad,is one of the causes!Isn't it??
Stupidsour
"Well Raghu, its because Gori and Gora can take a walk at Gorai (a beach in Mumbai) but Desi and Desa can't take a walk on Desai (Sneha maregi)"
HA HA HA ...Stupidsour why shud Gori-Gora take a walk at Gorai beach in mumbai??? surprising that Desi & Desa cant take walk on Desai...point to ponder though....i know Gujarathi people are very nice sweet people and they dont beat anyone...Gujarat a nice place...but then my comment was not so personal for desi-desa-desai...ha ha ha ....
i also wonder "what would have pappu said? is pappu a gora or desi?" HA HA HA HA HA...
when Pappu went to club, he heard Soul singing this song "Pappu can't dance saalaa" he he he he he...
Sol have you also heard about the desis who wed, get to marital home only to find a gori in bed?
hmmm , male thinking ?
Very true
@ Abhishek,
What is?
@ I'll try,
Yes. At least that one male.
@ SMM,
Yes I have!! So pathetic na!
@ Raghu,
If you heard the song right, pappu is desi.
@ AmitL,
That's what people usually like to think...that girls are gold diggers and men are after sex. Guess people have not watched enough hindi movies where true love survives poverty and virginity.
@ Ghost,
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!
@ Hemu,
Very convenient!
@ Stupid,
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAH!
Gori hai kalaiya...know that song?
I am sure you can reframe it using your puns...
@ Ankur,
Abey!! Beautiful wife kaha se tapki? Gori means PHIRANG here in this context.
@ Ghost,
How brutally honest!
@ Stupid,
Maybe that's what he truly meant...gaon ki gori and par-desi...ohhh...and we all dissed him!
@ Stupid,
I am now in bed on a wed.
yeh found that out :D ...it was chori chori chupke chupke...damn the streaming.
@ Stupid,
YES!! Won't let anyone walk all over me!! No desis and desas please!
@ Alok,
And your choice?
@ Pecos,
???????????????
@ Trinaa,
I know!!
@ Nirmal,
So what is the point?
@ Broca,
Then why sleep around with a gori?
@ Lena,
OMG!! Thank you for being soooooooooo honest here even though you are in the minority here. As you can see, many readers have looked down upon this attitude, at least in writing. But I totally understand what you mean. I have seen this happening a lot! Its just not this one instance. I am so sorry you go through this. :(
@ Nitin,
I know a lot of goris who would happily wed the indian guy who gives them false promises only to dump them as soon as the mother brings along a "great alliance".
And the desi girls these days are not as "kacchi kali" as we think they are.
I thought you would get the implied meaning.
I am gay. Hence Desi to Bed and Gora to wed. Get it? Gay marriage ain't legal here.
your statement!
people wont accept it .. but they follow it .Period!
Sol, Tue ney Wed co bhi abhi tak 'valid points' ka answer nahin diya. Hum idhar India mein uskey liye Thurs rahey hain.
@ Mez,
Yes. I see that a lot. Everywhere.
@ Bubbly,
Strong reaction is a good reaction!! Why the discrimination? Nitin has given an explanation.
@ Princess,
Yes they do! And then they talk about how westerners are all about sex. They should talk about themselves first.
@ Paratrooper?
You asked a question in response to this comment? What's the connection?
@ Amit,
Oh! So if "goris" like indians in bed, the reason why desi guys sleep around with them and then later marry a desi is the gori's fault?
somewhat like a rape victim was raped only because she wore a sleeveless shirt, right?
@ Rahul,
Who knows! There is truth to this. These things do happen.
@ La vida,
I know!!
@ Vinz,
Oh! You think people need "balls" to do this? I mean not literally.
@ Crystal,
Why ban me?? Cos I am desi? :(
@ Daydreamer,
Nympho type hi hai!
@ Pavi,
I doubt that he will. He will go marry an innocent, trusting desi who will think that her pati is a devta.
@ Kris,
Sorry. I really did not get the implied meaning. But now I do. And you are so brave about it. :)
@ Abhishek,
Yeah I know what you mean. Dikhane ke daant alag, chabane ke alag.
@ Stupid,
Main yaha Houston mein Fri ho rahi hoon and tujhe Thurs ki padi hai!!
Sol got Fri-ed as she Sat in the Sun.
@ Stupid,
Mon toh nahi tha Tue sit in the Sun.
Sol ko Mon hua Tue Wed (wade) in a swimming pool, Thurs-ty that she was as she got Fri-ed while she Sat in the Sun in Houston
arre mujhe pata hai re, thanks for enlightenment still! lolzz
but what i mean is, typical mentality ke liye gori sirf sone ke liye hoti hai, coz as per them woh committment nahi de sakti hai, khud nahi dekhte hai ki khud kya kar rahe hai... sleeping arnd with everyone who offers!!!
and 2nd criteria is, sunder ladki ho, toh 50 log dekhte hai... i know when they say, yeh shaadi ke liye nahi hai, par agar sone ke liye mil jaaye toh wah wah!!
this is wat i mean and maine socha ki tu samamjh jayegi and i need not to elloberate! :D
considering thhe indian population, I don't think you can say that Solitaire...
I mean you know a small lot..I agree... but not a lot lot desis...
come to Thiruvananthapuram, and show me atleast 5 such girls...ones who are just 18...I mean..come on...you don't even see any a girl like that at an icecream parlour...gulping up strawberry or a pistacchio or a choco, even with her friends!...forget the date, or the bed even...for that matter...
desi girls are still the same here...even though at times they try to make others believe they aint...but then deep down, they still are...
@ Nitin,
I agree I know a small lot of desis in India, and none in the place you mentioned. But this conversation occurred in the United States, and I know a LOT many desis here. And when I say a LOT, I mean A LOT! I can safely say that they are not the type you portray desi girls to be.
does that mean.....oh no...its catastrophic....!!
what a waste? emotional attachment vs girls....its hard to choose...you know....
especially when you live in a place where every next left turn is a heritage site.. :|
Only time will tell....
**not watched Hindi movies...***..grin grin grin grin..hats off to that comment.:)
:-)
Neither!
i have also heard it previously somewhere but don have ny practical experience:)........
@ solitaire....that desire u know!...
/:)
i wud rather go with Gori for both :D
ye sadiyoon purani baat hai aaj kal toh desi bhi bed par milti hai
ha ha lol
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